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Decide To Get Positive

By Larry Crane

You have a decision to make.

You have been negative all your life. You decided it.

You want to fight me on that. You want to tell me it was your upbringing. It was your dad, your mother, your grandmother. It was your first grade teacher. It was your companions. It was everybody but you.

I have news for you. You did it. You decided to be negative.  

Sure, you may have seen or heard others being negative or talking negative, but it was you who decided you were going to adopt that behavior.

You decided it, you can change it. It's up to you. You can decide to be positive or you can decide to continue the life-long habit of being negative.

How has that negativity helped you? Think about it. What is negativity anyway? You don't like someone, that's negative. You don't like something, that's negative. All those feelings you like to express, let's name a few of them, fear, anger, guilt, regret, frustration, all those are negative. Judging is negative. You're jealous of someone, that's negative. You think someone isn't as good as you, that's negative. You think someone is better than you, that's negative. How does all that help you? How does it do one thing for you?

Well, okay, it does do one thing. It feeds that ego of yours, doesn't it?

By the way, that's the same ego that tells you to beat yourself up. That's the same ego that tells you to criticize your self, that tells you to feel bad about something you did or said. It's the same ego that tells you to do something, take that extra piece of chocolate cake, then criticizes you for it, why did you do that, I thought you were on a diet? Yes, that's your friend your ego for you. Some friend that is. Why are you listening to that ego? Why are you letting it run your life? You let that ego run you, because you never thought about it. You didn't know you have a choice.  

As of right now, you know. You can be positive. You can be negative. It's your choice. You decide. From now on you know, you decide.

Decide To Get Positive

By the way, you're the owner of that ego, that mind. Start acting like the owner. Take charge. You're responsible for what you do and what you say. If that ego is telling you to do or say something negative, including beating yourself up, you decide right then. I am bigger than my ego, my mind. I'm in charge and I'm not going to be negative. I'm not going to say that mean, hurtful thing, like I usually do. I'm not going to take that habitual, negative action I usually take.

You're the owner. Act like the owner. Something happens. Your mind is going to say, look at what just happened, beat yourself up. Right then, you decide. I'm going to be positive. Tell that ego/mind to take a walk and get lost. No more negative.

Has negative ever helped you? Has negative talk or action made you happier? Has it made you more successful? Has it made things work better in your life? Has it improved relationships? Has it made you healthier? Your friend, your ego is telling you, maybe it has made some things better. Some friend that ego is. Negative never did one thing for you and you know it. How could it? Negative cannot do something positive. Negative goes down, positive goes up. They're opposites.

So, how do you get positive? First you wake up. You watch what you're saying or doing and if it's negative, you don't say or do it. If you've already said or done the negative thing, you don't beat yourself up about it. That's an important first step. Keep awake to what you're doing and stop. Stop doing, saying or thinking negative. It's a decision.  

The next step is to get the Release Technique. You've been negative all your life. You need tools, you need skills to root out all that negativity and let it go, release it. Most of our mind, 95% of it is subconscious, meaning you don't know it's there. You can see your conscious negativity and begin to decide not to be negative. You cannot see your subconscious negativity running your life 24/7.

The Release Technique gives you the tools and skills to go into that subconscious mind, get that negativity up to the conscious level and start letting it go. With the Release Technique it's possible to get rid of all your subconscious negativity.

As you let go of the subconscious negativity, you notice your life starts improving. Your life starts getting positive. Positive things start happening in your life. The more subconscious negativity you dump, the more positive you get. The more positive you get, the more good things start coming your way.

You can see examples of thousands of people who have experienced remarkable, often miraculous things and changes in their lives when they let go of their negativity and got positive.

You might be saying, okay, I'm starting to get it. I have to let go of the negative and get positive. I have to start visualizing, I have to start using affirmations, I have to meditate, I have to hang positive quotations all around my house, I have to think good thoughts, I have to get out my motivational tapes and start listening to them, I have to dust off those books on my shelf and start reading them.

Here's a question for you. Have all of those things worked for you so far? Of course they haven't. They haven't worked because they haven't given you an instantaneously provable method for releasing—-for getting rid of your subconscious negativity.

Your mind works like a computer. You put viruses in your computer, it malfunctions and eventually shuts down. You've been feeding negativity into your mental computer for how many years? It's time to get started deleting that mental garbage not adding any more to it.

The Release Technique works because you go into your computer and take out the viruses that have been blocking your happiness, your health, your success, your abundance. The Release Technique is about deleting the mental viruses, the negativity. When you do that, the computer starts working like it was designed to work and your life turns around.

Make a decision to be positive. Make a decision to drop the negative. Go to order the Abundance Course. Get started removing the negative programs from your mental computer. Begin seeing positive things happening in your life. Do it now.

About the Author

Larry Crane has been teaching The Release® Technique to executives of Fortune 500 companies for years. He has personally trained businessmen, psychiatrists, psychologists, sports and entertainment celebrities, sales people, managers and housewives in the art of letting go of problems, emotions, stress and subconscious blocks that are holding people back from having total abundance and joy in their lives.
The Release Technique has been taught to over 100,000 graduates worldwide.

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