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What Do Men Find Attractive in Women?

By Christie Love

Let’s get real ladies about dating. You want to date someone that you are totally attracted to, right?  I am sure that men feel the same. Have you been on a date and felt yourself wondering if he really is interested in you? Well, this is something that shouldn’t be a question. From the first moment he lays eyes on you, you should be able to feel his magnetism.  

  

That’s why I can not stress enough about how important image is when dating. Think about the type of man you want to impress. Then think of the type of man you don’t want to impress. Let me give you an example that will help you a bit. Let’s say you meet a man on a blind date. The guy who greeted you wore back boots, black torn pants, a black shirt with a picture of a skull on it, spiked jewelry, multiple piercing, tattoos all over his body, and a shaved head. Now, you may like this type of man, but most women who are looking to get into a relationship with a professional gentleman, probably wouldn’t view this guy as an ideal match.

Here's another example. Let's say you went on a blind date with a lawyer. Most lawyers have a polished look. Their image is clean cut and usually well-groomed. Now, if you went on a blind date with a man whose image resembled that of a lawyer, you would probably put forth more effort to make the date the best ever, hopes that he invites you out again; of course providing his character matches his gentleman like image.  

  

What Do Men Find Attractive in Women?

Studies indicate that attraction of one person to another is based on 75% image. That’s why first impressions are so important to get right. If you’ve heard the saying, “It’s the girl that makes the outfit, not the outfit that girl makes the girl.” Forget it. A man will judge you solely on what you are wearing; quickly. Therefore, you don’t want the outfit you wear to give the wrong impression. Dressed improperly could portray that you are a woman who lacks self esteem, organization, or that you just don’t care about your appearance or the date itself. So, now do you see how important image really is?  

  

When deciding what to wear on a date, the best advice I can give is to find something that looks feminine (with just a hint of cleavage) and that you feel comfortable in. Trust me when I say that when you look confident, comfortable and most of all, sexy, your aura resonates and he will notice something is different about you; at first glance.  

  

Your cloths tell a lot about you. They tell your personality; your style; the kind of person you are, and your image type. So, you’ll want to make sure that you show that you are “The ONE.”  Now that you’ve got your look together, you can be more focused on enjoying your date.

Being truly happy in any relationship begins with you. It would take much more room than we have here to fully explain them all. Fortunately, there is a great resource you can visit to get all the sassy and fabulous information you need. Get free tips on how you can create a fabulous new you, while attracting men in the process.


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      Catherine Behan wrote Aug 21, 2008
    • HI Christie,

      Good ideas and I think you are right on.  I have become a big fan of What Not To Wear as I love to see the transformation Stacy and Clinton bring out in the women they work with.

      I used to skip makeup alot but they are right, who can’t take 5 minutes to put a little makeup on!

      I love looking put together and do you know what?  My husband does too.  He notices when I have put thought into my outfits and that feels good.

      One other tip?  I suggest women get their colors analyzed.  I was amazed at what a difference it made to pick colors flattering to my skin.  Color analysis has come a long way as I am an autumn, but now there are 4 different autumn palettes.

      I shop mindfully now because men and women alike comment on my appearance now...a lot of the time!

      Thanks for this post, it is really god advice!

      Catherine
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      Lxplibra wrote Sep 11, 2008
    • I agree - first impression is everything! My mom always told me that. Guys know that too. If the guy you went on a blind date is clueless about this little thing, do you really want to date him?



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      Rebecca Deos wrote Dec 1, 2008
    • The biggest thing men find attractive is self confidence in a woman. A woman dressed in a potato sack walking confidently across the room will recieve better attention than a woman trying to sell herself through her clothing.

       It’s about us as women, and being comfortable in our skin that entices men.



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      Jgirl1331 wrote Jan 5, 2009
    • I think I’ll revive this one....I agree with Rebecca..although it is important to dress appropriate for the situation and to look great, the most important factor is to feel comfortable and confident!  I have several different “date” outfits that I feel great in and I stick to them.  Confidence is sexy.



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      Rebecca Deos wrote Jan 5, 2009
    • I’m actually working on a blog post similar to this subject. One of the things I am touching on is that men do not care about our bodies as much as we think they do. Yes, they may have a preference, big, small, tall, short.  

      What turns them off is when we constantly complain about our bodies. Most men will honestly answer “Fix it or embrace it“. Being comfortable with who we are is far more enticing than any particular body type or style.



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      Mz. Queen wrote Sep 19, 2009
    • This was a good article and I can’t wait to put what I’ve absorbed into action.

      Thanks for sharing.

      Donna



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      Linda "Princess Dominique" Grosvenor wrote May 26, 2010
    • Great article and lots of yummy tips! I love anything that enhances our ability to have more meaningful relationships.



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      Kerri1985 wrote Jul 2, 2010
    • Definitely love the part about your appearance it is so important to have yourself put together before leaving the house you are right you never want to look like you could care less about the way you are dressed. It does say a lot about you when you make no effort in the way you look. I also think putting on a little makeup makes all the difference it says you want to look good for you and maybe someone else too :)



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      Nita P wrote Feb 1, 2012
    • there is someone with whom i have had a strong attraction to and he with me.  he has seen me in many different outfits.  either dressed up, casual or track pants.  i have seen him dressed up, casual and in track pants.  we both have that physical attraction to each other and its is not from the clothes.  he exudes a charisma, a playfulness, sexuality and is a caring



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