Building After A Break Up

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If you think your business isn't affected by your personal life....you are NUTS!

It is every woman's FUNKY TO FABULOUS

As a business coach, I am seeing how intertwined a clients personal and professional life is.

I went through a break up not too long ago…and want to share some

Getting Over The Break Up tips

broken heart

Mending a broken heart requires that you change habits. Recent scientific studies show that you need to change the neuro pathways in your brain in order to forget that past love- and redirect yourself toward your new life.

One Break Up Is Enough

If it’s over- it’s over.

You make mending your broken heart tougher if you stay in contact.

Whatever you do- do NOT contact him.

Get Plenty of Vitamin G

Studies show that in times of stress women gain strength, comfort from the company of other women. Girl Time is so important that I call it Vitamin G. (lots of science to back this up!)

Call girlfriends and fill up ‘couple time’ with Vitamin G "Girl Time"

Alone time is the toughest time when you are mending. (It’s natural to start thinking of Mr. Almost Right) Here are some Turnaround Techniques to use to stop from sliding into a pit

Mend Through Giving

Get busy-giving to others. Studies show that there is a "Helpers High" (with the same endorphin lift that runners get from exercise) that comes when you volunteer and help others less fortunate. Volunteering will help you:

  • fill up with self esteem and be
  • reminded of how valuable you are
  • see that others have challenges bigger than yours
  • have a more positive attitude


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    kathy wrote on Wednesday, January 16, 2008

    Thanks for the tips its just so hard.



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    angie08 wrote on Sunday, January 20, 2008

    I always felt like when/if it ever happened to me, i would be just fine. But when it did, it was the most difficult thing for me to live through.

    I felt like my world came to an end, but soon I realized that I lead my life and i can change/advance myself. So I did, and I overcame this obstacle in my life.



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    Award winning author, Eli Davidson, is recognized as one of “America’s
    Top Coaches” Eli is a Women’s Empowerment Expert who assists women and
    companies through out the US to tap into their own genius and create
    optimum results. 6 million international travelers receive her coaching
    tips on United,Delta, American Airlines. Her clients include Grammy,
    Emmy and Golden Globe winners as well as leaders in the healthcare,
    banking and real estate industries.

    Her book, Funky to Fabulous: Less Stress and More Success for the
    Savvy, Sassy and Swamped(Oak Grove Press) overcame incredible odds and
    won Finalist National Best Book Awards 2007. Category: Motivational
    Self Help. (only The Secret got a higher award.)

    Her innovative approach to problem solving is a frequent guest on
    national television and weekly guest on Headgames Radio on Sirius
    network radio.

    A popular motivational speaker, she gives audience members “Turnaround
    Techniques” ™ tools to overcome obstacles and innovate success.


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