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4 Boy friends*

 Once upon a time, there was this girl who had four


 She loved the 4th boyfriend the most and adored him with

 rich robes and treated him to the finest of delicacies.   She gave him nothing but the best.

 She also loved the 3rd boyfriend very much and was always

 showing him

 off to neighboring kingdoms. However, she feared that one

 day he would

 leave her for another.

 She also loved her 2nd boyfriend. He was her confidant and

 was always

 kind, considerate and patient with her. Whenever this girl

 faced a

 problem, she could confide in him, and he would help her

 get through the

 difficult times.

 The girls 1st boyfriend was a very loyal partner and had

 made great

 contributions in maintaining her wealth and kingdom.

 However, she did

 not love the first boyfriend. Although he loved her deeply,

 she hardly

 took notice of him.

 One day, the girl fell ill and she knew her time was short.

 She thought

 of her luxurious life and wondered, I now have four

 boyfriends with me,

 but when I die, I’ll be all alone..’

 Thus, she asked the 4th boyfriend, I loved you the most,

 endowed you

 with the finest clothing and showered great care over you.

 Now that I’m

 dying, will you follow me and keep me company?’

 ‘No way!‘, replied the 4th boyfriend, and he walked

 away without another


 His answer cut like a sharp knife right into her heart.

 The sad girl then asked the 3rd boyfriend, ‘I loved you

 all my life. Now

 that I’m dying, will you follow me and keep me company?

 ‘No!‘, replied the 3rd boyfriend. ‘Life is too

 good! When you die, I’m

 going to marry someone else!’

 Her heart sank and turned cold.

 She then asked the 2nd boyfriend, ‘I have always turned

 to you for help

 and you’ve always been there for me.

 When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?’

 ‘I’m sorry, I can’t help you out this

 time!‘, replied the 2nd boyfriend.

 ‘At the very most, I can only walk with you to your


 His answer struck her like a bolt of lightning, and the

 girl was


 Then a voice called out: ‘I’ll go with you.

 I’ll follow you no matter

 where you go.’

 The girl looked up, and there was her 1st boyfriend. He was

 very skinny

 as he suffered from malnutrition and neglect.

 Greatly grieved, the girl said, ‘I should have taken

 much better care of

 you when I had the chance!.

 In truth, you have 4 boyfriends in your lives:

 Your 4th boyfriend is your body. No matter how much time

 and effort you

 lavish in making it look good, it will leave you when you


 Your 3rd boyfriend is your possessions, status and wealth.

 When you die,

 it will all go to others.

 Your 2nd boyfriend is your family and friends. No matter

 how much they

 have been there for you, the furthest they can stay by you

 is up to the


 And your 1st boyfriend is your Soul. Often neglected in

 pursuit of

 wealth, power and pleasures of the world.

 However, your Soul is the only thing that will follow you

 where ever you

 go. Cultivate, strengthen and cherish it now, for it is the

 only part of

 you that will follow you.

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