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A Letter to Dorothy on The Yellow Brick Road

Thursday, August 7, 2008 at 12:14am
Letter was written on Facebook by Devon Capman  

(To women of Menopause who feel they are over the rainbow in support of:
Author/Speaker/ Coach/Admitted Mid-life Crazy Amy L. Harden - Thank you Amy)

Dear Dorothy,
What a wonderful work you are doing there “over the rainbow“. I hope the blue bird I acquired delivers this note properly in the right spirit, and your heart receives it in the light of those who love you at home.

While there is “no place like home“, we are praying for your efforts there that you would save as many as you can, to help them get home too.
What a precious gift it is to reach out and help those who think they may need a brain, when all they actually need a little direction (and maybe some meds - lol) and a flow of encouraging words.

Having the heart to love the right things takes courage. It seems with all the elements involved that you are facing numerous adverse adventures and trials every moment you are there.

By all means “Do” pay attention to what is behind the curtain when the time comes and share with your travelers that they have most of what they need already, though it will be tested. That’s where your character should shine and mature as you go through that valley of experience.

Be aware, of course, the wicked witch will use many a romantic "Munchkin" or mean and angry “Monkeys” to take advantage of your disorientation.

We, too, have learned to be so thankful, for everything we are hoping for in you, and miss you immensely. You are a very important part of us. Please remember this.

Don't dance too much with the scare crow and forget your focus, but DO have some fun.
Don't let the Tin man, in sharing his heartache, keep you from helping him, find his way. (Your purpose for being there)
Don't let the Lion keep you from facing the witch and the trials and trouble she sends your way. You must defeat her with what you have, because it is your only hope of getting home.

Remember the witch is feels the pressure of the urgency of time as a heavy weight upon her so she will lie at every turn to keep you there. Your feet must stay on the proper path without straying. The flying monkeys are just there to scare you. Remember us back here praying for you and draw from that strength. This is why you need those slippers of His peace to lead you home. (let you feet be shod in the peace of the gospel... remember?)

Do hurry, we love you so. Rescue as many as you can, for there is no place like home. We feel empty and incomplete without you. Fight that good fight of faith.

Your loving family,
Uncle Henry, Kansas

PS The wizard apologizes for the mishap of leaving without you. He has helped us in understanding what trouble you are in. Looking for your safe arrival. Come home soon.
Also Hi from your Auntie Em, and Hunk, Zeke, Hickory, and Professor Marvel

Written by Devon Capman 8-4-2008
To women of Menopause who feel they are over the rainbow in support of:
Author/Speaker/ Coach/Admitted Mid-life Crazy Amy L. Harden

Postcard from The Yellow Brick Road

Dear Uncle Henry:

Never thought I would find myself in OZ again, but for some reason I have forgotten the lessons I learned a long time ago when I visited here when I was just a teen.

Now that I have become a mother,wife and career woman...I have become consumed by it. I no longer see the rainbows or the bluebirds...these things always made me happy. Hunk, Zeke, Hickory dismiss the way I am feeling with a simple, “It’s just a phase or Come on, kid...just get over it!” This new Toto has become more of a problem than the old Toto was and Toto was the cause of my last trip to OZ, ya know. Maybe my problem is these dogs.

I don’t know what this trip will entail, but I know that I will be looking up the Scarecrow, Tin man and Lion...maybe they can help me find my brain, heart and courage. Bumped into the Good Witch of North when I first arrived and she gave me the same pair shoes. Can’t remember for the the life of me, why I needed those shoes...so, I am off to see the Wizard again...maybe he will be able to tell me how my life got to be such a mess or is it a mess?...I am so confused.

Got to go...those Flying Monkeys you mentioned in your letter are circling overhead, which means the Wicked Witch is nearby. Getting a bit “home“sick...but I just don’t know what “home” is anymore.

Your Loving niece,

Dorothy

To everyone who is reading this:

Devon’s writing here is absolutely wonderful...he has caught the concept of what I do, but before there is any misunderstanding...I want to clarify that I (Amy Harden) am not Dorothy...I once was a Dorothy, but I am no longer...I have been called by a higher power to lift women and men up and out of The Dorothy Syndrome. I am putting the finishing touches on a book dealing with this subject and coach women and men who are on the Yellow Brick Road who are dealing with Dorothy’s in their lives. As I network across the internet at all the social networks for women, I don’t believe I see many Dorothy’s among the women blogging, connecting and creating business ; all of them are wearing their ruby slippers and clicking them on a daily basis. My mission is to help those women that they can’t reach yet. Dorothy is not ready for positive, uplifting, motivated. These women can’t even think straight, they are confused , frustrated, depressed: barely able to get out of the bed on a daily basis.

I try to prepare them for these empowered ladies...so they will receive their messages and help...not dismiss them as another “Rah-Rah!” Mid-lifer. Please ladies don’t take this as an insult...it really isn’t...it is just the way it is...there are women out there that are ready to hear you and then there are others that hate you for being so positive about life,your journey and mission. They are envious and jealous sometimes...they want what you have...they just don’t know how to get out of the bed, out of the monotony of their lives to get it. It’s a bare bones, baby step process...time is what they need and most when you tell them what they need to do...they don’t believe you, let alone have the energy to do it....thus you have “The Dorothy Syndrome“. So, I travel with these ladies and men, helping them avoid the Flying Monkeys, leading them through the woods and the Poppy Field...slaying the Wicked Witch, not depending on the Wiz for answers. When Dorothy realizes it is really all up to her...she is ready to listen to you and follow your direction. I promise!

If you are a Dorothy, please visit Amy’s Forum: Women in MLC: The Dorothy Syndrome at:

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      (華娃娃) ChinaDoll wrote Dec 3, 2008
    • Amy, How do I know if I am a Dorothy behind Chinadoll?  What is the symptoms?  Is this a disorder or just a phrase we all women have to go through?



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      Amy L. Harden wrote Dec 4, 2008
    • Well, you need to determine if “chinadoll” is a mask that you are wearing to get through your day OR if indeed how you define “chinadoll” is you...the person, the passion, is it who you truly are and what you believe to be true?! Are you hiding behind a mask for fear that someone will discover who are...or is Chinadoll your authentic self?  Define who Chinadoll is....only you know if you are hiding behind it or if you truly are Chinadoll.    The difference is if you are living the definition or you want to be the definition and you aren't.

      As for the symptoms of being a Dorothy...well, I am writing a blog post with just that...I will be posting it very soon.  I don’t want to give away all of upcoming book...or no one will buy it...right?!!! happy



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