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Hello All! Let me start off by saying that my name isChris I am 22 and live in south Florida. I foud this sight the other day and I am posting to see if any ladies out there can lend any insight into my ongoing problem of attracting an older female.

Let me start off by addressing my situation. I have been in two serious relationships in my life, the most recent one ending about 3 months ago. It was ongoing for 3 1/2 years, however my girlfriend decided she wasnt ready for things to get more serious and we ended it. It seems like i am looking for more than the average 22 year old male at sometimes. As of recentlyI have taken aa distinct attraction to a more matured type of women (mostly in the30-45/50 age group) The problem seems to lie in actually attracting these women and finding the right place to find them. The most striking problem however, may be actualy knowing if these women would take me serious or just blow me off thinking im some punk kid just trying out the new fad of pulling in an olderwomen (cougar) for bragging/ego issues.

Ladies I am looking for some serious advice to help me with this problem. Quite honestly i am through with the younger crowd of women and looking fora refreshing change. I guess my main problem lies within approaching an older women and going about saying the right things to her to make her want me.

I would greatly appreciate the help,


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