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Living as a Christian doesn't always get you a lot of glory.  In fact, doing the right thing whatever that may be, rarely leads to praise or accolades from peers.  It is what we are supposed to do. Live right.  Love each other.  Have a humble heart. Love Christ.

Honestly, I struggle with this some days.  To make myself humble and put someone else's desires before mine does not come naturally to me.  Holding my tongue when I feel I have been wronged is even more of a challenge. And when I do what is right it doesn't always feel as good as when I let off a little steam and tell someone exactly how I feel.

It is my hearts desire to live as Christ would have me live but it is a discipline.  Not only do I need to continually remind myself of how I need to handle certain situations but some of my best meaning friends can keep me from living this way just by feeding my ego and telling me what I want to hear.  I want to hear that I am right and if I think I have been treated unfairly, I want someone to agree with me!  But a friend in Christ isn't always going to massage my ego.  They are going to continually challenge me to live better and keep me on the path that Christ would have me on.  I am so blessed to have friends like this.  I want to be a friend like this.

Recently, a group of my girlfriends and I were talking and the subject of meekness came up.  Meek, not a pretty word. Short and simple but when I picture someone I considered to be meek, it is not a person who stands tall and strong, quite the contrary.  In [Link Removed] online daily devotional he described meekness this way,

"The ability to control our reactions, to handle hurt without retaliating is called meekness. Jesus promised, "Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth" (Matthew 5:5 NIV). Meek people control their reactions toward life and this gives them far more control over a situation than if they simply react.

If you are a meek person, you are no longer a victim. You control your choices. The best definition of meekness in the Bible is Proverbs 16:32: ". . . It is better to win control over yourself than over whole cities" (TEV).

WOW!!! Not what I had pictured at all! Brace yourselves, I want to be meek!! That is something I never thought I would write, but it is true! I want the desire to always be right, gone.  I want to live a life where I am in complete control of my actions and reactions.  What freedom in that. No more being the victim.

Jesus desires us to live this way.  He breaks the chains that bind.  If we open ourselves to His teachings and the plan He has for our lives, one day we will stand before Him in all of His Glory and will hear Him say, "Well done my good and kind servant."

Truly that is all the praise I need.

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