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CAN AN INDEPENDENT WOMAN ADORE HIS COCK?


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Note:  This post was previously titled “Can you be a feminist and worship the phallus too?”  I think it might catch more readers with the new title.  What do you think?

Here it is as previously printed:

This week my pal Alex Zola interviewed me on the Cougar life for his blog The Zola System (also reprinted on my blog as Why I Am A Cougar:  In My First Interview With Zola, The Truth Comes Out.  

Why younger men?  he asked.

First, they ask me out; and guys my own age rarely do.

Second, younger men have harder cocks.  And I do love a nice, hard cock.  

A few people were offended by that.  This is not the first time I’ve gotten in trouble for stating a sexual preference for a specific physical type.  While men can prefer blondes or brunettes, admit they will only date much younger women or like older babes, praise the booty or the breasts or whatever turns them on—we women are supposed to make our partner choices based entirely on character traits like ‘good sense of humor” and, of course, his success factor.  Fine to go after a man for his money.  But his cock?  Not so much.

One woman sent me a message on Facebook asking:  “How can you say you stand for female sexual empowerment—and then describe yourself as a ‘cock worshipper?‘”

Sister, if I weren’t empowered sexually, I wouldn’t be able to admit how much I adore the cock.  I love the shape and size—the heft of a solid appendage held in my hand—and the texture of the skin, the silkiness of the shaft, the lush spongy head.  I love the smell and the feel of it in my hands, my mouth, my vagina (yes, and occasionally, my anus too).  I love what I can do to that cock, how I can make it perform beyond his expectations and derive more pleasure for both of us than he thought possible.  The cock—better than a magic carpet ride.  What magic carpet ever came with broad shoulders, strong arms and legs and chest hair?

A cock is also a big girl's pacifier.  Nothing relieves stress like sucking one.  A woman posted this comment on Alex's blog:  "It's all about the blow job.   She implied that men were only attracted to me for the BJ.  That would beg the question:  Doesn't attraction come before the BJ?

But the BJ is an essential sexual skill.  You own a man while you have his cock in  your mouth and hands.  Perform that job well; and you won’t have to ask your girlfriends, Do you think he’ll call again?

I named my technique featured in my books The Basic Black Dress of Blow Jobs  (You can add accessories, but it's always perfect on its own.)

As much as I delight in performing the BJ, I’ve only had one relationship based almost entirely on that sex act.  I met him a few years back; he was my age but he possessed perhaps the finest cock I’ve ever known.  (He played tennis several times a week.  Blood flow.  The cock is all about the blood flow.)  He would toss a floor cushion down and point with one hand while unzipping his pants with the other.  It was incredibly sexy.  I caught my breath every time that magnificent cock sprang forth; and I was dick-matized for over a year.

Then one day I realized that I wanted more than BJs and, moreover, the man wasn’t worthy of the cock.

So, yes, I worship the cock—but a woman needs more than singular devotion in her sex life, yes?

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