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I’m a single mom ... divorced with a ten yr old son, Josh happy
I’ve been divorced for 3 years.  

Not dating anyone at the moment... I have recently decided that I’m going to stop looking and focus on accomplishing all my dreams/goals .. in the midst of things I will accidently bump into my ‘Mr. Perfect for me’ ;p Whew.. but I have to say boy has the dating scene CHANGED. I think I’m going to write a book on my experiences. lol

I love going out, dinner, drinks, etc. with friends... this wknd I was in a trendy, upscale lounge with my girlfriends.. this attractivce man approaches me, compliments me, tells me I am beautiful.. laying the charm on THICK, we are exchanging pleasantries, having good conversation. He tells me he needs to get my phone number so that he can call me, he wants to take me out to a lovely dinner.  I’m thinking (hmm dinner, I can do dinner).  At that moment my girlfriend asks me if I’d like to go w/her to the bar to get a drink... so the guy says please let me buy you a drink, so I accept. And we head towards the bar ... when we place our order, my g/friend’s included, he looks at me and snaps at me, saying I’m buying you a drink NOT YOUR FRIEND... [I’m thinking whoops ... I’m not going to dinner with IKE TURNER!] So politely I say, no one is expecting you to pay, I’m buying my friend a drink, in a split second, he goes back into character.. and says no what kind of man would I be to let you pay... [now I’m thinking ... oh he’s BI-POLAR!!]

I let him (first instinct was for me to pay for both drinks, but then I thought forget that let him pay he deserves to pay after his rude behavior!!]  I take our drinks, I thank him, smile and I walk away!!!  oh and dinner is off... enjoy your evening.

What is wrong w/men these days???? Good thing is he showed his true colors ... instantly.. THANK GOD.



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