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My mother died a week ago yesterday. I am lost without her. I feel so lonely. I wish it this loneliness would stop.
Sending you love and hugs at this time...because words can not comfort and fill the emptiness you feel at this time. Losing a parent is the hardest to deal with next to losing a child...I was devastated for a long time after my father passed away. Be gentle with yourself and don’t let anyone tell you that you have had enough time to grieve...take your time...start a journal and talk to her through it...write down memories to save and pass on to others...but most importantly be gentle with yourself.
You are in my prayers at this difficult time.
Amy
I’m so sorry for your loss. Know that the empty space in your heart right now will someday fill with very precious memories that will be with you for a lifetime. You‘re in my prayers.
I’m here for you if you need someone to talk to I just buried my brother yesterday. I lost both my parents, my dad in 07’ and my mom in 99’ so I know first hand what it feel like to lose a mom as well as a loved one period. I’m here if you need a friend.
This has been a tough few weeks, I am hearing about many people taking their final journeys. You have my sympathy. There is a Native American saying that a person’s spirit is around you for 3 months (and I was surprised to hear a Russian friend say they believe the departed’s soul doesn’t leave the earth for 40 days, so 40 is a number they frown upon in fact they don’t even celebrate their 40th birthdays). I would suggest you meditate with some sage and fragrant cedar, open your heart and talk with your mother as if she is right there with you.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ve lost my Mother too (and my best friend). I won’t tell you it gets easier, you just learn to deal with it better as time goes on. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
I am sorry for your great loss. Like many others here, I too experience the loss of a loved one. I understand the void. Just let it “be“... you are in your grief and that takes time.
My mom died 2 yrs ago and since my father died when I was 15 she was everything to me, I was born on her birthday and she died on Dec 31. very significant dates.
I understand you clearly. Although I am married and have two children the sense of being an orphan surrounded me.
As time passes you are able to learn to leave. People tells me “it gets easier” I do not know about that because I miss her every day.
Much love