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I feel like rampaging today. Another mumble jumbo in Chinglish.
Anyways... how many times I give myself benefit of the doubts and be gentle to myself. We all say to each other “Don’t be too hard on yourself.” “Give yourself a break.” “Take it easy.”
After awhile, I give myself too much lead way. I start to look for excuses. “Because I am sick” “Because my husband is ill” “Because I have a teenage son” “Because we are living in a bad economy” “Because.....
You see, self pity is good bandage for a little while. However, when our wounds are healed, we better take off the bandage and let the wound breath fresh air. Otherwise, guess what, it keeps rotten further. The bandage turns from a solution, a fix, a cure into the problem itself.
So I am here to say “Ding It” “Take ownership of our problems. Take charge. Own it. Face it. Solve it. Give ourselves a big kick.”
Do not blame on others. Do not blame ourselves. Do not blame the world. Do not blame period. We have the power within us. Once we know how to find it and channel it, it will come easy.
We are forty and plus. If we live to 80, 1/2 of our life has gone. Are we still waiting for prince charming? Are we still waiting for our world to just turn around us? Are we doing the same thing over and over again and expect the different result?
Take ownership - we are dynamite.
Hey Girly,
It’s hard being the Light in the Darkness, because something or someone has to turn that light on. Keep shining baby. Keep lighting up the world.
Cocco
Agreed!
I love it when someone says “I’ll be happy when I lose weight, become rich, find a man” etc. Why can’t you be happy now? Happiness is a choice—you don’t have to wait for a man, weightloss, or money, you can be happy without these things. Just say YES!
Then, when these things happen to come along, you can be happier!
Waiting for the “right” circumstance is the most unproductive time spent.
After this post, I went to work. I took ownership. I took charge. Boy, did I feel good. Even it is a Friday and no phone calls, I was in the office for the longest since when. I cleaned up the mail. I studied and much more. I felt I had great accomplishment.
The sad part is my company blocked all gmail, yahoo mail, msn, hotmail as well as Fab40. So I could not get on. The good part is I did some work.
So I will continue to be in charge. Work like a dog and have fun like a Chinadoll at night.
Thank you all. You are my inspiration.
You are so right CD, we have to take responsiblity for our own selves.
Until you own it, it will own you.
Great post CD! They say the definition of insanity is to keep doing what you are doing and expect different results. It feels great to take ownership - be positive - and live life to the fullest. I am more excited about life and business than I have ever been, and that after a very depressing spat with my hubby. Instead of saying woe is me, I said “I’ll show you!” but in a positive way. We can look at the cup half empty or half full or envision it overflowing with enough focus and intensity that it actually comes to be.
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