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Do we really need to know??  Or is it just human nature to want to know??  

I’m talking about.....well everything in life.  Relationships.....do we really need to know everything?  Or is it just human of us to WANT to know??
Life.......same thing.....do we really need to know everything??  Or is it just the human part of us that WANT to know.

Is there a rule that says if we don’t know then we‘re dumb or just have our heads buried.  Is that a crime??

I was happier when I was younger, not knowing that my husband made a comment about something or not knowing what a member of my family was doing.  

I WANT my head buried in the sand!  Is that a crime??  After being burned in almost all of my relationships I’ve become this person that NEEDS to know everything!  I hate that!!  I truly do!!  I’m not that happy-go-lucky person that I once was!

I can remember when my husband that passed away said.... “Why are you not jealous?  I come home from work and tell you about a woman or women that beeped and yelled and waved and you don’t say anything.  The guys at work say that you don’t care......”  That’s not true.....I TRUSTED him!  Whole-heartedly I trusted him!  And back then I didn’t need to know EVERYTHING that was said, I trusted him when he said he was going here or there.  I didn’t call after him like the other wives did to their husbands.

And then it happened......I find myself playing detective because I’ve been cheated on, lied to, and heart broke in two!!    I would much rather “bury my head in the sand.”  I was sooooo much happier!!



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      Cynthia Schmidt wrote Sep 17, 2008
    • Amen! I don’t need to know everything either. (Especially whether or not Britney Spears is wearing panties, but that’s another story) And, I trust my husband as well. In the end of your blog you said something about being lied to and cheated on, I hope it wasn’t with your husband but I wasn’t sure. But, really, I agree with not need to know everything.  

      My husband sometimes wonders if I love him when I don’t even get a little jealous. I don’t believe he would ever cheat but he knows that if he ever decided to, he better be very quiet about it because I have a no tolerance policy. He’d have to get out his suitcase and his checkbook simultaneously.

      Best to you
      Cynthia



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      Gott2beme wrote Sep 17, 2008
    • Thank you Cynthia!
      I was lied to and cheated on by my other marriages. I put them to the curb!!
      My boyfriend that I’m living with now has not. I did find out however that he had made a comment to one of his old friends that happen to be a girl. Needless to say when I told him how upset I was he stopped all communication with her. So of course the trust issue has come up full force!
      But this is where I feel that I don’t care if my head is buried. And he knows very well that if he ever cheated that he would be put to the curb instantly!
      I just hate feeling the way I do now!
      I want the happy-go-lucky ME back!!!
      Again
      Thank you
      Lorry  :)



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