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I’ve LOST people in my life and EACH of them (in their own way) taught me that:

Everything happens for a reason....

People come into your life for a REASON: either a Season, or a Lifetime.
When you figure out which one it is,
you will know what to do for each person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON. . .
It is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty,
to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend, sometimes...
some people are!

When people come into your life for a SEASON...
They are there for the reason you need them to be.

Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh, even cry...
They may teach you something you have never done or thought of before
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy, even pain...
Believe it! It is real!
But... only for a season.

without any wrong doing on your part,
or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the
relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die...
Sometimes they walk away...
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.

What we must realize is that our need has been met,
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
And now it is time to move on.

LIFETIME relationships in all its forms:
takes effort and understanding
for it teach you lifetime lessons;
things you must build upon in order to have a
solid emotional foundation.
Our role is to accept the lesson...
maybe love the person
and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships
and areas of your life  

It is said that love is blind but
I prefer to say in all its forms LOVE TRULY SEES "everything"
Whatever the reason/s or season/s or a lifetime that relates to you and me...
Please allow me to thank you now for being a part of my life.

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