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I broke up with my partner of 16 mths.... frown

This has been the worst week i could have had, nothing seemed to be going right.
Tonight is a week since and i havent heard from him.
we spoke upto 3 times daily and now nothing. How can they just not care. The breakup wasnt even what you would call one, just .. bye , love you very much hunni.

I mean seriously what does it mean?
After like 16mths of sharing our lives and thats the best line....

I sent email, sms, and called and nothing... i feel like a fool, im being ignored.

I have cried myself to realisation for damn near 7 days, its ridiculous, i was such a strong person before this.

I have no girlfriends here to share this with... im new to my town,so coffee out with the girls is not happening, the guy was long distant so i cant go see him !!

My best friend from Canada calls me on her time to comfort me.... is this sad or what?

Im a frickin mess... I want Me back !!


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      (華娃娃) ChinaDoll wrote Mar 30, 2009
    • You will find your “ME” back and I reassure you, it will be even better and more fabulous.

      If he breaks away from you, please, know it is hard, cease all contacts.  You are getting yourself hurt even more.  

      We are here and we will provide support to the best we can.

      Take care.

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      UK Girl wrote Mar 30, 2009
    • Honey - I’m so sorry ....... listen what you have done is what everyone has done in the past and no none of us will be able to shed light on why men act like this.

      You probably feeling very vunerable so maybe it's time you took time out for you  and got out and about and sought out people to make friends with - is there anything you have always wanted to do like learn to jive or ball room dance ?

      Stay strong honey and vent your feelings here as we will all be a willing ear.

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