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Every time Drew appears at one of our workshops, the women will ask him “how did the two of you meet?”

To me, the “how” is rarely important. Action and behavior as you probably have discovered brings different results for different people. What people don’t often address is the vibration or the belief that lies underneath a person’s behavior. Instead, I find that asking important questions like “what was your mindset before you met, what did you believe was possible for you?” “How was this relationship different from the others you’ve had?” will get you a lot more usable information.

In the interviews that I have done with Beloved couples who live a relationship that resembles the equation 1+ 1 = 3, they always have held a common thread.

*Both people were no longer looking to a relationship to fulfill their needs for happiness. They were already happy with themselves and were no longer seeking for validation outside of themselves.

In fact, that’s exactly where I was when I met Drew and vice versa. I had gotten to a place in my life where I only worked on media projects that made me happy. A mutual friend introduced us because he knew I could create videos, and Drew needed a video for his new start up, Aardvark Adventure stories.

His company empowers kids by allowing them to star in their own books.

People upload photos of kids making fun expressions and then the kids get to be the protagonist in the book. I LOVED IT! His passion completely matched my desire to bring media out to the world that was empowering and inspiring. And interestingly enough I had put on my list for my Beloved that I wanted someone who was a good storyteller : )

In his previous relationship he had yet to discover his passion. He had jobs working at Microsoft, HP, Netscape in the past and relationships that were still missing a very key ingredient, they didn’t support him to be who he truly was. It was when he transitioned from that pattern, that he committed to honoring his creative needs that we could finally meet. In previous relationships, I also operated under the belief that I had to do work that compromised my values. And not surprisingly I too manifested relationships that were unbalanced. It made sense then that by the time we met, we had both aligned with having integrity in following our passions.

For me, the exponential power of our love brought forth the entire body of work that I offer women about the Path of the Beloved.

Interestingly enough Drew has a princess story that I especially adore where the princesses are just as empowered as the knights in shining armor ; -} You can check out his [Link Removed] 

Drew’s so honored that I’m speaking of his passion this month that he will gift any of the Beloved women who order one of the books with an Aardvark CD of amazing songs for kids.

You can even listen to a sample [Link Removed] Pretty amazing if I say so myself.Of course I'm partial and I asked for a man who could sing but you tell me if it's not pretty cool ; ) There is still time until December 15th to order and make sure your gifts arrive by Christmas!) Just say you heard about it through me. ENJOY!

Here’s to a happy path first that will inevitably lead to happily ever after!

All my love,


Bella Shing is a Spiritual Love Coach who helps people who believe in the Law of Attraction to Manifest their Beloveds by understanding first and foremost how to be that for themselves.

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