A man or woman are who they choose...meaning you are either choosing out of wholeness or brokeness, now yes everyone has areas they need to work on, but some folks think nothing is wrong with them at all...they have created mass destruction in their own life’s and undeserving hurt and pain in the life’s of others...with no remorse or feelings of wrong, because they want to live as they see fit..and now you are mad at the world because you didn’t get what you wanted and the way you wanted it so now everyone that cross your path has to pay for your sins you created!....Like the saying ( you really don’t won’t none)... don’t think God don’t have it....half stepping it, looking at others to pray your way into heaven and at the same time no one can pay you to pray for yourself, GUESS WHAT you got to go through the front door like everybody else!...NEWS BREAK...where you go when you die starts right here and right now..miss me with the small talk! And if you can’t get over who has hurt you then do everyone a big favor and go back, because believe me no one wants to be biten by a venomous snake who refuse’s to see that GOD has been trying to get you past you!!! Can the real MAN OR WOMAN please stand up who is willing to be honest about their disfuctional world wind of stuff and is willing to work on being better for themselves and others around them. Open up your hand and let go of all the broken pieces others have left in your life, let God be the doctor to your heart and mend each pain so you can get past you.