I will like to add that even do I do not know my earthly father personally for he choose to not be in my life our heavenly father send me a caring wonderful man my way the one I call papa and I am so grateful to have experience what a fathers love, because, what others meant for evil God meant it for good and I am the woman I am today because I had people who care and took their responsability as parents seriously and these has allow me to forgive the other man who turn his back on me.   So if you are not in a place of forgiveness towards your father what ever He did or did not do, and take confort to know that God is in control.