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  • okay Weekly Newsletter. seems like forever on the phone debate..and he has called and called..and she is still there..

I finally went and made the contact I had been promised from him...I needed the closure..

We talked, we teared up...I got some resolution..

The details?...Well I was apologized to-he acknowledged the screw up and the grass wasnt greener..but needs to figure out his life..I told him I wasnt a factor and maybe in a year or two, we could be friends, but not now..I dont know how to be his friend without wanting to smack him the forehead and ask him WTF are you doing...

I also told him everyone has been hurt, but if you dont want her there..your hurting her now by letting her stay...and that his selfishness will leave him alone in the long run...

He said he would call, we could talk, told him no more empty broken promises, no more waiting by the phone..don't come around unless you mean to stay....

When it was all said and done, I felt at peace..woke up and felt good..Sometimes you have to confront ALL of it on your own terms..and move on...heart

I wrote this so many days ago-wanted to savor the moments of peace-unfortunately, my resolution has been short lived. I am getting better about not "waiting" for the phone to ring, but still there are days when i am completely torn up about all of this. Life needs to move forward..

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