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So why can’t I let go????????

At this stage of my life, I have had the benefit of experiencing many relationships with a variety of men. I now know what I want...what I don’t want....what I will compromise....and what I won’t.  

I have proven over and over to myself that I don’t Need a man.....but it’s no secret that I am a giver and I believe life is waaaaaaaaaaaaaay more enjoyable sharing it with someone you love.  

Having said all that, the guy I most recently have come to believe would be the ideal mate for me to share my life with has unequivocally...and for the second time....declined the offer.  

He’s just a guy.........so why can’t I let go??

My rant for the day, week, month.....



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      Jenni0811 wrote Apr 26, 2009
    • Sharing my broken heart....



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      Vikki Hall wrote Apr 26, 2009
    • I wish I could heal your broken heart. It just plain sucks!!!!



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      Leeann wrote Apr 26, 2009
    • I am so sorry you are hurting jenni, It just will take some time. I am sending you many smiles my friend.



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      Jenni0811 wrote Apr 26, 2009
    • Yeah it does.....my heart hasn’t been broken...probably in decades....forgot how it feels.

      Gotta keep saying.....he’s just a guy....



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      Vikki Hall wrote Apr 26, 2009
    • Well hi is only a guy..... hardly worth it if he isn’t in your life......
      I got kleenex right here for you. Better to just go with the emotion and get it out instead of denial.

      BTW I have an Italian uncle and cousins.....



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      Doreen XoXo wrote Apr 26, 2009
    • So sorry jenni.  "He's just a guy."  He's probably doing you a favor although it doesnt seem that way right now.
      Sending you hugs

      xoxo



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      Mztracy wrote Apr 26, 2009
    • aw jenni, he is just a guy and a guy that has just lost out on a beautiful person.  

      I know it is hard, but it is his loss!!!
      sending huge cyber huggzzzzzz



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      Jenni0811 wrote Apr 26, 2009
    • hahahaha....just keep me laughing girlfriends and it will be alright estatic



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      Jenz ~ wrote Apr 26, 2009
    • Ok. Now he’s a fool. He’s just a silly boy. And perhaps he hit his head and aquired a fat case of amnesia because he’s NOT going to find better than you. RIGHT GIRLS? We ALL know THAT.
      I promise you that you’ll be just fine in no time. It is difficult, I know.
      And IN my humble, yet loud opinion, hee hee, He doesn’t deserve you anyway!
      If you ever want to go out and paint downtown Milwaukee red, call me and we’ll get dressed up and go! Please don’t hesitate to say if there’s anything I could do to help. happy
      HUGS!
      J.



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      Jenni0811 wrote Apr 26, 2009
    • Thanks J......

      After I’m done cryin my ‘gator tears, I’ll call ya :)



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      Jenz ~ wrote Apr 26, 2009
    • Okay. You take as long as you need to girl. I’m not going anywhere. HUGS!



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      Susan Sullivan wrote Apr 26, 2009
    • He is just a guy, but I suspect, at least in part, the guy isn’t really what you‘re mourning, it’s the dream that you believe you could have built with and around him.  I get that...and I’m so sorry.  Letting go of an emotion, a dream is never easy but time, some tears and some good old creamy ice cream goes a long way. Good luck!



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      Anne E wrote Apr 26, 2009
    • So sorry you have to go through this pain and heartache.  The right one for you is still out there.  I hope you find him soon.



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      (華娃娃) ChinaDoll wrote Apr 26, 2009
    • I am sorry.  You deserve someone crazy over you for you are a hot woman.  Mr. Right is out there somewhere but the timing is off for now.  I will send God an Fed EX prayer request for you.  Love,



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      Mjmurphy wrote Apr 27, 2009
    • Sorry about your heartache Jenni. Some people get their heartbroken and they never give anyone else the chance to do it again. You opened your heart and experienced great joy even though you knew the depths of despair you may reach. I admire you for that. Your path toward healing will take some time, you’ve lost a connection that was important to you. Give yourself some time, we‘re here for you and always willing to listen.



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      Jenni0811 wrote Apr 27, 2009
    • Thanks to everyone!
      I’ve drunk the wine....
      I’ve eaten the ice cream....
      Probably will cry a few more tears I feel bottled up in me...

      Now I need the time. Good thing he’s 1000 miles away, cuy I’m at that dangerous stage where I would run right back if he so much as looked at me.

      Interesting thought if my heart is broken over the loss of “the guy” or “the dream“. I suspect a bit of both...he fit everything I had on my list, except one huge thing....he wasn’t that into me. Guess it can’t work without that!  

      So, how do you find both?? I’ve had 2 husbands who WERE that into me...I’ve no doubt they both would have laid down in the road for me....they still might, but yet I was left empty and without My needs being met.  

      Maybe all I need is a room-mate...or a dog....or all my Fab40 gals estatic

      Thanks again Ladies for letting me rant...
      ...he’s just a guy, he’s just a guy, he’s just a guy...



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      (華娃娃) ChinaDoll wrote Apr 27, 2009
    • A cat too.  

      Keep yourself busy.  Put that thought in the back burner for now.  God will finish the cooking of “love” for you.  Before you know it, love will over pour.



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      Jewelrybyirina wrote Apr 29, 2009
    • Hi Jenni,
      I am so sorry your heart is broken.  I were in your shoes too.  It will get better, trust me.  You’ll find your soul mate.



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