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From the day my husband and I met, he has always treated me like royalty. I never complained, I embraced the Love & Attention, and I am proud to say that up to today it is still going strong, with every intention of growing stronger.
From the onset of our relationship I knew it was special, becaue we started talking through his mother bringing me messages from him. (she and I worked at the same resort & casino)
Throughout our courtship and marriage outsiders were of the view that I ran the relationsip, or wore the pants in the relationship, I guess because they saw me as avery vocal, and opinioated person. But I never ever second guessed him, his decisions or opinions in the presence of others (for the same reason)
His male counterparts never understoond, and still don’t understand why, everywhere he goes, I am the second fiddler.(it is always at his invitation) I remember on evening he came home from work, andsaid he will begoing to watch a basketball game with te boys. I said kewl, and went next door to visit my friend. This ws like 9 years into our marriage. Around 10 that night he came home (to my surprise). So I asked him how te game was, he said, he left before the game was over,b/c it wasn’t the same without me there. I was touched, but more so when he told me, he will never do that again, because I am his spa.
My girlfriends (the few that I have), consider me spoiled, b/c my husband (who was brought up by a woman who taught them how to do everything) cooks most days, does the laundry all the time, most of the household chores he do whether I volunteer or not, he insists. (I do help out regardless of his opposing) He prefers for me to be rested, and relaxed b/c he wants me to give our son my undivided attention, especially because he is working most evenings.
Not only is my husband a good husband, hes a remarkable father to our son. He took 10 weeks paternity leave and vacation time when our son was born, so that he could help me out, and I would not be burnt out. He did bottles, changed diapers, fed him, bathed him, got up through the night like clock work, he bonded with our son from the day he was born.
He’s not able to shower me financially with all the finer things in life, but the things he do shower me with, are priceless, serenity, peace of mind, stress free home life, comfort, quality time, love, affection, attention etc.
He don’t make a fuss about anything, and I don’t complain about anything.
From the guys point of view, he's whopped , they say I am the man of the house, and to the gals, "I am spoiled", to me, "I am loved", and a woman who is loved....is loved, in many different ways, and this is the way my husband choose to love me.
I am sure there are men like him out there, maybe even better.
But I Love the way my husband loves me, wether others think I am spoiled, or not. Wether his male friends thinks he’s whopped or not....*It works perfectly for us.*
'Cause this sister handles her business, in and out of the bedroom' and she does it well....
Is your husband whopped, by his friends standards?....Are you spoiled, based on your girfriends definition?