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We had a "family" meeting last night to get through the obstacles that were separating my husband and I. It was a must if we wanted to save the marriage. After it was all said and done, I am optimistic that not much will change but that they now know, my stuff is few and far between and is now untouchable, my patience has come to an end and if they chose to not live up to my guidelines they will be finding another place to live, if they chose to go to places on my "work" computer that they shouldnt be going, they will get their hands smashed (not smacked) and will probably be looking for another place to live. I know I sound mean and insensitive, however, these kids are 22 and 23 years old, have had their hands held all their lives and somehow think that I should be their live in maid because they pay $100/month to live with us. If my bills could only be so low. If only I had the ability to have someone else do for me all the time.

Although I seem a little bit bitter with his kids, I love my husband completely-but will never be the door mat that his ex created in those kids and will never come between him and his children. I would do anything in the world for my husband, but I also feel that responsibilities at home fall on the shoulders of all who live there. It took some time to get my point across, but I think I have finally made at least one step forward. Lets hope anywayhappyh3.


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