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I just came up a thought about how to be a better friend or relative.  It’s a quite simple one so hear me out. estatic

I have friends and family members I like doing certain things with or they only enjoy doing certain things yet I don’t always want to spend an entire day with them so sometimes I just don’t make plans;so starting today I am going to make a list of all the things I and they like to do together. This coming year I will be sure to ask each one of them to do this special something at least four times.  

Here are some examples:  

One of my friends always seems to want to go to the movies.  She doesn’t like just sitting and eating or talking in person. I will ask her to go to the movies four times this upcoming year.

One of my family members loves food as I do so I will ask her to go out to lunch or dinner or come over for a meal at least four times this year.

One of my other friends loves going to stores to buy candles and magical things so I will ask her to do that at least four times this year.

Another family member just likes sitting at home and having tea/coffee so I will do that four times this year.

Other friends just enjoy talking on the phone or instant messaging and I am already very accommodating with that because I enjoy that also. I enjoy all the above things also but I don’t always take the time or effort to plan them but for now on, I will.  

I realized more than ever through my trying times this year who is there for me and who is not.  We learn a lot through difficult times.  I want to be sure I’m there for them too but not just when they need me to talk to but also to be with.  

Doesn’t that sound like a good idea?  I thought so!!!!!LOL

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