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After claiming my life back by leaving an abusive marriage ,I found myself trying to reclaim myself. It has been very heard to feel good about me again.  

It’s been since 2007 and I love a lot about being able to do things with my children and grandchildren which were denied during the 10 years of marriage. During the marriage I was not allowed to have visitors at the house, I was not allowed to go out with friends. Nor allowed to visit family and friends. The house we lived in was taken over by cats, they lived in the house and he expected me to clean up after them every day, knowing I was alergic to the cats . This was his was of torturing me. Finaly in 2007 with the help of my 2 grown daughters I “escaped” my Hell on earth.

He stayed in the house with up to 30 cats in the house living in the furniture in the living room and in the closets in his bedroom. I moved in the other bedroom while I was still a prisoner. I was alergic to cats and had to get out, and he knew it . When I left it was not even a month, I was put in the hospital for pneumonia with a servere case of of bronkitis with severe asthma. My lung was so full of infection that I was under oxygen the whole 3 weeks that I was there. I still am on a puffer with also a nebulizer. I warned him to get out that house. He was not told I was in the hospital via my request. He always laughed about the house being poisoned by the ca. fecis and urine. He bragged he has never been sick a day in his life and he was also a chain smoker. Well.... without my knowledge he developed leukemia and died at his daughters house last November. I am still suffering from the affects but glad I got out when I did. I was able to live long enough to find that I can still find the greatest love of my life.  

OH WHAT A JOY !!! TO FIND LOVE/ THE TRUEST LOVE OF ALL!! I can’t wait for you to know him.heartheartheartheartestatic

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