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..Will the doldrums end??
..Will I ever really be happy again-
I am writing through tears -I have to get this off my chest..
The man I had been involved with for the last 7 years has been letting his ex wife live with him for the last two months..It was easy for him to do-we live 40 miles apart, he works here in town-I can’t drive right now.....she moved here from Ohio..she’s “just staying till she finds a job“- “I was going to tell you, but with your surgeries and the kids -you had enough on your plate“..dumb me I bought it...until today
He was actually here last night before he went to work-came by long enough to play with the girls, help me get them out of the tub and pick up dinner I had cooked for him to take to work ....
. I found out about “her” 3 days ago-I called to leave him a message and she answered the phone...It only took 3 more phone calls to find out what had been going on-once confronted- he was so apologetic and “would clean up this mess“....
He makes it a point to let me know about his “health issues” and the doctor wants him to try something else- low testosterone-he is a diabetic and has heart issues as well..We haven’t had “relations” in 2 years-I didn’t want to be frustrated and didn’t want to frustrate him because things ‘don’t work“....so what NOW that she has moved in NOW HE WANTS TO GET HIS STUFF WORKING????
..He has been working constantly - OR SO I THOUGHT- for the last several months-that’s why my friend had to take me for this last surgery....
well- he was to find out last night if he was working this weekend- he never called to tell me- and now- only the answering machine at his house...
..I am so glad you cant see my face-cause one of you might walk up to me and slap stupid on my forehead.....
Why when one is slapped in the face with reality-we try to make things right-when we know we didn’t do anything wrong...why do we LET MEN do this to us???? How to stop..how to survive another disappointing relationship...How to quit crying....
Sandra you are not stupid! And so many women have been exactly where you are that I’m betting no one will throw stones because they live in their own glass house. Now, armed with this information you know what it is you have to do in order to save yourself. I know it hurts and believe me, we’ll be right there with you, but you have to let this man go and heal your heart. Wrap you arms around those beautiful grandkids and let their unconditional love fill your soul.
Ditto to what Cynthia has said and trust and believe you‘re not the 1st to go through something like this nor will you be the last, but you can get over it and survive, trust me there is love on the other side of the fence, you just have to allow it to find YOU! Be Blessed.
Beautiful Ladies- Warm Heats- so much insight..truthful but not hurtful
and Neicy..do you know a carpenter to build my fence??
Thank you
No one deserves to feel or be treated this way. You deserve better. It’s always hard taking that first step, but you’ll be be happier (eventually) when you do. hugs
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