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heartbreak..Will the doldrums end??

heartbreak..Will I ever really be happy again-

heartbreakI am writing through tears -I have to get this off my chest..
The man I had been involved with for the last 7 years has been letting  his ex wife live with him for the last two months..It was easy for him to do-we live 40 miles apart, he works here in town-I can’t drive right now.....she moved here from Ohio..she’s “just staying till she finds a job“- “I was going to tell you, but with your surgeries and the kids -you had enough on your plate“..dumb me I bought it...until today

heartbreakHe was actually here last night before he went to work-came by long enough to play with the girls, help me get them out of the tub and pick up dinner I had cooked for him to take to work ....

heartbreak. I found out about “her” 3 days ago-I called to leave him a message and she answered the phone...It only took 3 more phone calls to find out what had been going on-once confronted- he was so apologetic and “would clean up this mess“....

heartbreak He makes it a point to let me know about his “health issues” and the doctor wants him to try something else- low testosterone-he is a diabetic and has heart issues as well..We haven’t had “relations” in 2 years-I didn’t want to be frustrated and didn’t want to frustrate him  because things ‘don’t work“ what NOW that she has moved in NOW HE WANTS TO GET HIS STUFF WORKING????

heartbreak..He has been working constantly - OR SO I THOUGHT- for the last several months-that’s why my friend had to take me for this last surgery....

heartbreakwell- he was to find out last night if he was working this weekend- he never called to tell me- and now- only the answering machine at his house...

tongue out..I am so glad you cant see my face-cause one of you might walk up to me and slap stupid on my forehead.....

Why when one is slapped in the face with reality-we try to make things right-when we know we didn’t do anything wrong...why do we LET MEN do this to us????  How to to survive another disappointing relationship...How to quit crying....

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