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Why do people feel the need to judge other people when they don’t know the circumstances . I will give this site another chance..I was hopeing to find support and kindness and friendship. I was excited to have a place where i can put down my thoughts and not be questioned of my motives..



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      Cheekymonkey wrote May 29, 2011
    • I must be missing something.  I’m sorry. This site is all if what you hoped it would be and more. Ive been here almost a year and have real true friends that have been so supportive and uplifting that without them I really might not have found my strength to ... Well basically die with grace due to I have an terminal case.... But not important.... What happened? I might have missed it.
      But I can tell you that we all don’t agree with each other but respect is there and thats between some really good friends. You don’t have to Agree or like the others persons ideas or thoughts but if you comment voicing your own it must be done with respect. That’s a big thing here.
      So what happened? Think about your reasons and I hope you stay
      Thank you
      Cris



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      Gpal wrote May 30, 2011
    • I will stay on this site its just one person put me off giving her opinion on a situation .



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      Gpal wrote May 30, 2011
    • I don’t expect you to apologize but the fact you feel the need to say what is going on in my marriage or not its not your place. I have been married for 26 yrs. trust me if my husband was a bad person I wouldn’t be with him whether I have a pen pal or not...This pen pal of mine just knows how to make me laugh and make my day better since I have been in not good health for the past 4 years. I like to get my laughs from all people not just him. Anyways I am not mad at you just it came off as I was doing something terrible wrong and I am not I am just looking for good friendship male or female its been a lonely and fustrating 4 years .



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      Denise Richardson wrote May 30, 2011
    • Gpal, hello and welcome to Fab40. We are a great group of supportive woman here and we all come from all walks of life and we all have difference of opinions, but no one is here to hurt anyone we all try to lift and support each other and yes sometimes there will be a comment where it may not sit well with you, but it is not our intention on hurting anyone’s feels, here we are all opened minded and we love each other. So please don’t take it wrong when someone says something that you may not like, it is their opinion and we also have to remember that when we post things here most times we ARE asking for others opinions so we have to remember that! I hope to see you around more and that you grow stronger with us all here.happy



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      Msj wrote May 30, 2011
    • Stick around!

      I been through it all thick and thin.  This site has given me support in times of sadness and recovering from family members’ deaths, to joking around, to heated disagreements...

      This is a wonderful site!  Hope to get to know you!happy



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      Marya1961 wrote May 31, 2011
    • This is a great place!estatic



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      Mztracy wrote May 31, 2011
    • I would much prefer straight up advice from some if I ask for it, then pussy footing around.

      I’ve gotten advice that I did not agree with before, but I asked for it.  

      Honestly, the women here will give you advice if you ask for it. If you see it as judgement when someone does not agree or you do not like their advice, then do not ask for advice.

      Sorry to be so blunt, but I’m the the type if you ask for it, be prepared for it as well!



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      Cathie Beck wrote Jun 1, 2011
    • I’m with Mz Tracy. If you broach a subject here you can bet on getting “opinions” from us. It isn’t intended unfriendly judgements, we just may not understand the choice and will be up front honest saying so and asking questions. We‘re a vocal group.  

      Since I know Eva, I’d say your reaction and thinking she was judging you is not about what she said but something of what you were maybe expecting here? This is not a “Housewives Tell All” site.  

      Cathie



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      Msj wrote Jun 1, 2011
    • True...happy



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      Cheekymonkey wrote Jun 1, 2011
    • heart well put mzt!
      I’ve asked advice and even though it wasnt what I expected after I thought about it some was better than I first thought.
      We are a great group of woman... Like an extended family. We don’t always agree, and we can get frustrated but never ever have I seen anything but honesty and that’s truely what we need.
      I want honesty even when I’m wrong. I count on it from my extended family. It helps.
      And if Eva gave you advise, I’m sorry I missed your post, it was said with honest caring
      Glad your staying
      Cris



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      Vikki Hall wrote Jun 1, 2011
    • Gpal I have been on fab40 for awhile now. The thing I learned and see it happen again and again is that tone is sometimes misinterperated. My suggestion is to private message the person and just ask them straight up if what you thought was what they intended.
      While we try really hard to be sincere in our comments the sincerity is only believed by the reader.  So while I hope you stick around I certainly respect your decision if you don’t.

      heart



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