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I Don't Know
Really, I don't. Since the news of our son quickly getting a new job and moving to be near his sister, I've been hit with the following questions and the answer remains the same:
I Don't Know. I Wish I did but I Don't.
1) Now that Adam's leaving the state-are you next?
2)How long will it take for the kids to sell their condo?
3)What do your parents think of this? (Actually, I do know come to think about it-pretty much the same as we do. They understand, wish him buckets of success, but will miss him very much.)
4)What kind of home will they buy?
5)Does he like the new company better already?
6)Where exactly will they settle? (Plans are to be close to our daughter, but how can they determine that now?)
7)If you move, will you be happy?
Let's face it-life is so uncertain that while I might have a clue, I can't say anything certainly.
Then there are the questions that I possibly have an answer for?
1)Do you think he did the right thing? Yes, yes I do.
2)If your husband does the same, do you think it's the right thing? Yes, yes I do.
3)Will you like it? Let's just say I'll love seeing him happy again and appreciated. I love being near my kids. But I'll hate leaving my home, my doctors and what few firm writing jobs I have.
4)Will you enjoy the heat? Yes, for the most part. I know when I'm there that the cliché of "it's a dry heat" is so. I feel better when I'm there.
Like this week's blog-I wish I could have more sure answers, some witty or funny responses, but I don't. I wish I did, but I don't.
And since I'm not sure about anything, I'm ending this week right here.
you know how to express yourself through blogging, you know some things and can answer them, you know some things that for now will remain unknown, i guess the biggest thing to remember is that in time you will know more and feel better for it. its ok and you are ok. if it will make you feel better talk to those whom your concerns are about or talk to those who are close to you and can offer loving care and emotional support.
best part of living w/ my spouse-we do talk and thanks to Skype and cell phone family plans-we talk to both our kids and their spouses and the grandkids a lot!
another form of life
We all face a lot of “don’t know’s” in life. You just seem to have a load of them coming your way all at once. Take it one day at a time and eventually you’ll know.
Tulip
Stepping in the unknown is always scary. Just remember there are no bad choices in life: in the end no matter what we choose to do we learn and grow. You seem like a strong grounded person, trust yourself and let things flow in your life. :)
I agree with the ladies, it takes time and planning, but I feel the same way, living close to our son (when he is on his own in time) will be important to hub and me.
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