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Here I am 44 years old and I have a crush.  Well...maybe it isn’t a crush at all.  I started this new job about four months ago and I was walking down the hallway and I saw this guy.  Granted he was handsome, but that wasn’t the lure - not to mention work romances are a no no in my book. But when I looked at him there was a voice in my head that said, “This is man is going to be your husband“.  I was floored.

I am really intuitive and trust my inner voice because it is usually spot on. So I didn’t just brush off the voice.  But I didn’t help it along either.  In fact, I went out of my way to ignore him and avoided him at all cost.  But when the universe speaks can’t ignore it.  

We continually ended up being in the company of each other.  We actually have fun conversations and even talk about our dating experiences - hilarious.   One day he shared his vacation photos with the office.  He was in Hawaii on a scuba diving trip and many of the photos were of him diving.  I have always wanted to scuba dive and told him I was jealous of his dive trip.  He put me in contact with his dive instructor and without telling him I started diving.  I loved it.  I have made it my own private interest.

Finally after weeks of diving I told him I was dive certified.  He actually got very excited.  We even scheduled a dive together, but he injured his ankle and his doctor wouldn’t release him to dive.  So I went by myself and it was a blast. In the meantime I have become a bit obsessive about him.  I think of him constantly, although I act as if he could be a can of paint when he is around.  This might not lead to anything, but the universe has spoken.  I will keep you posted...


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