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I pledge the following to this site:

- I am just a member

- I am just a friendly outgoing member

- I can welcome newbies but it is not a responsibility

- I care for others but I am not taking their problems into mine

- When I see land mines, I walk around; I don’t need to try to blow it up for protection of others; let it be... it may blow or it may never.  Let it not be me to trigger it.

- I need to set limits here.  I have to focus on my family, my health, my job, my spiritual life.  This is nice but it has been an escape.  It’s time for me to face reality.  It hurts but I am ready.

- I am not perfect.  Even what I think is loving stemmed from my heart, may be judged and condemned.  Let it be.  Perhaps I should not be as loving and caring.  It hurts sometimes.

- I can comment and it is not my responsibility to make comment on every post and blog to give them a jump start.  Hold my fingers, say a prayer.  

- People come and go; flowers bloom and wilt; I am not responsible to rescue and beg them back to site.  They face their consequences.  Let them be their own judge.  I need not to influence.

I may have further pledges.  This is it for now.


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