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I am going to listen and read w/ out comment unless asked to by members it seems my lack of social graces are proceieved by others as a lack of respecct.



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      Mztracy wrote Nov 7, 2008
    • Well tori, I do think you come off angry at times. But, I found the bitch day blog, and was a tad offended by some of the posts there too. I am one of those people that if you want the truth, ask me. If you want bs, go ask someone else. But, in my truths I try and be as kind as I can while still getting my point across. My thing is kill em with kindness. Or my fav, be nice to your enemies, it really pisses them off. ;)

      And I am in no way passive-aggressive. If one keeps at it, they will not like what they get.  

      But, at the same time there are never times when ones race or religion or weight or even disability, should be brought into an arguement. The only ones who need to do that are the ones that have nothiing intelligent to say.  

      I read your blogs and noticed you have been having some hard times. I think this is why you have come across harsh. I know when I have bad days I can tend to share it, if you will.  

      Most days, my life sucks...but I choose to find even one good thing in my life to get me through the day.  

      I am sorry for what went on in the other post. I know it was bitch day, but I can see how it could be offensive, I did, Oh and I read it 3 times, so I got it, if anyone wants to ask!! lol

      Breath Tori, and then see if maybe a different tone and/or feeling comes out. It may not always work, but it is worth the try!

      love and light



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      Denise Alleyne-Hill wrote Nov 7, 2008
    • well said mztracy...We all have a story to tell and depending on the day, it might not be such a good one..But it really depends on how you perceive your life to be...Is the glass half empty or half full?



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      Tori Santos wrote Nov 7, 2008
    • Thanb you laddies this has been a moth from hell and it seems to spill over into everything. From my back to my stepdaughter, a term I never used for her until now, left us without even a goodbye, to working with women who place themselves over everyone else. I felt like I was being attacked and I am not kidding. I did not even begin this with her ( I know don’t place blame) but I felt you know here I am being chastised by someone for something i felt she was doing to me. I so did not mean to offend any one, but I know what I read. I probly the last person in the world to give anyone advice. but I came to this sight to try to connect to the female race again. I spend a large amount of time with other peoples kids and my six your old. I have never been good around females. I have only 3 good female friends and they are no where near me so I thought why not try to connect with people Who might be in the same situation as me. I feel like nothing I do or say comes out the way I mean it. I apologise for being bitchy and point out why I was and was lambasted for that. I don’t want to leave the sight, I actually laugh when I read some of these blogs. I also feel like I have it far better then others when I read this.



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      (華娃娃) ChinaDoll wrote Nov 7, 2008
    • I am a drunken master, it’s better be full for me.  LOL



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      Denise Alleyne-Hill wrote Nov 7, 2008
    • It’s cool..like I said..we all have good and bad days..Just try not to get into anymore ‘debates’ with anyone else..which I know..sometimes that is easier said than done..But with as much personal stuff you say you’ve got going on..use this place as your source of comfort and strength...and laughter...



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