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tongue out..What a wimp..me that is..

I thought that with all the support I had here, I would carry on with chin up digninty with Mr Wonderful and all the darn drama that has unfolded..

SETBACK

I resorted to Facebook revenge..on her...and talk about being a child..I am slightly ashamed now, but for the moment I was the victor!!...

Now I am a bit bored with her and the more I hear, the more stories that are relayed to me, I am now beginning to doubt everything I have heard ...

Now it’s HIS turn...I just want the truth..no half truths, no partial truths..Just the damn truth

Why can’t men tell us the truth?

To be brief..I called her out on it, she was just a witch, and i stayed calm..until the end of the conversation..I told her I would take care of it and if he cheated on you once, he’ll do it again ( I need to take my own damn advice) I then proceeded to drive to his work to catch him before shift and calmly explained to him that he will never contact me again, dont call, dont drive by and stay the hell away from my grandchildren and children..He had the nerve to ask me What is Going ON???..Why are you upset? is he dense?? Well ladies, after that dumb ass comment, I wasnt so calm..and to be brief he said, go home clam down and I will call you later or come by so we can talk... I BOUGHT IT!  ohhhh

Needless to say...he hasnt been by yet..but he did call several nights in a row, said she was moving out, one night, he was going to kick her out..and she is still there..but packing and getting ready to move out...OMG he isnt dumb ~ I am

Is there a lifetime movie here somewhere????

Everyday I start with a new resolve and make it at least a couple of hours..If his Mother would quit calling me and getting me jacked up, I think I could make it a whole day, but it is her mission in life to get this woman gone..I had to tell her, it wasnt her place or mine, he needed to do what he needed to do..no one can make him do anything he doesnt want to ... She wrote him out of her will, and some mention about  he was dead to her.. How did this get soo out of control?

So unplug the phone right?..Why cant I just unplug the damn phone? Will someone come over and give me a phone intervention?




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      Lazylola wrote Oct 17, 2010
    • Vent away, and yes, pull the plug,  know it’s hard but it does help not having the phone ringing.

      We are here for you.



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      Suzann wrote Oct 17, 2010
    • Ditto Lazylola. I feel your pain, Sandra. heartbreak



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      Nuncita wrote Oct 17, 2010
    • Sandra, I have been where you are. Unplug the phone or change your number and delete him from all emails and social networking sites.  

      Mom need to leave it alone.

      Much Luv heart

      nuncita



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      Cheekymonkey wrote Oct 18, 2010
    • heart Im really sorry your hurting. Your not dumb! Wanting so badly to believe in someone you love isnt dumb but now hon that your eyes are open and your heart is broken you need to show your worth to yourself. And your worth is amazing. So, love you enough to unplug the phone for JUST one day.....then another and another and do something beautiful for yourself.something thats is special. And if not having your phone on bothers you change the number and then treat you. Your a strong person and when you need somemore streagth we are all here for you no matter the shape your in....you will always find a hand reaching out to you.
      Hugs to you.



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      Sandra G wrote Oct 18, 2010
    • heartheartheartheartheartheartheartheartheartheartheartheartheartheartheartheartheartheart

       This is why I am SOO glad I found this site...

      The support from the wonderful women here is AMAZING!

      Checking on the phone changes RIGHT NOW!!



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      Nuncita wrote Oct 18, 2010
    • Atta girl! Although it is a bit cliche remeber “That which does not kill us makes us stronger“.  

      You will come out on the other side of this a much stronger women who truly knows how to love herself and will only accept that kind of love from others. heart

      NC



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      Cheekymonkey wrote Oct 19, 2010
    • estatic So, how did it go? Did u change phone #?



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      Sandra G wrote Oct 19, 2010
    • LOL..I called and checked ..and I can do it..but I havent.tongue out   .and probably as well~

       He hasn’t called and that helps resolve this in my mind..

      His mother has called ONCE (whoo hoo) and I kept the subject on everything BUT him ...

      ONE DAY AT A TIME....

      I think knowing that I CAN chage it,  is just a phone call away and I can do it..instantly...is  a comfort to me.....  

      I have had my phone number for over 20 years..why inconvience myself? (and maybe just the slightest bit of hope?)



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      Mzd3 wrote Oct 19, 2010
    • I feel for you hun......



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