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No, Seriously Is It?  

Not in age - They say beauty wears thin but sexiness increases with age. As you will see below, a lot of what constitutes sexy is really how we communicate our inner confidence and inner youthfulness to others. You can fool some people some of the time but you can’t fool all people all of the time. The attempt to fool people into believing you‘re younger than you are just makes you appear less confident about your inner beauty which is your inner youthfulness.

If sexiness is not in any of the usual suspects, what is it about some people that we can’t help but be drawn to their magic, even if only in small doses?

Let us look at just ten sexy qualities that genuinely sexy people have in common; qualities that intrigue us, that seem to calls us by name, and taunt us with fantasies.

1. The look of mischief - a look that has laughter and delight in the eyes. They have a touch of untamed naughtiness under their omniscient gaze - a window to an unbound soul.

2. Sophisticated mysteriousness - elegant yet edgy, rugged but still polished, friendly yet reserved. They posses a sort of “captivating unknown” or dissonance that keeps our want-to-know-everything minds on edge.

3. Relaxed vulnerability - a kind of carefree childlike fearlessness. They put themselves out there partly because they feel secure enough to just be themselves.

4. Self-assured confidence - fundamental ease in their own skin. They stride into a room with poised surety that their aura compels us to notice them.

5. Wit and Humour - quick-minded, easy and generous with their words, time and presence. Their mere presence can cheer up mundane situations and add sizzle to otherwise boring experiences.

6. Lavish sensuousness - a peculiar mingling of voluptuous pleasure and vibrant soulfulness. They are in every bit immersed in the depth and richness of their beingness—and it shows.

7. Health and abundance - physical fitness, personal resources, and abilities. Whatever they have, they are content and that makes it look like they have it in plenty.

8. Heartfelt sincerity - genuineness, simplicity, and openness. They show strong and authentic emotions and affection.

9. Exuberant vitality - passion, intensity, drive, bounce; qualities that reveal both the fire and desire within. They are positively overflowing with genuine appetite for life - and for living.

10. Human warmth - kindness, compassion, approachability. They are interested in others and are interesting themselves.

The good news is that, these are all qualities that we all have within - some in smaller amounts than others. The REALLY good news is that it’s not that hard at all to develop these qualities to fully blossoming levels. All we have to do is remove the mental, emotional, social and spiritual blocks obscuring what is our innate radiance.


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