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I will be 41yrs old in September.  I have come to the realization that everyday of my life has been spent thinking for other and doing for others, ir shall I say my family 3 daughters and and a husband.  I have just realized back in October that all I do is not appreciated.  I have dedicated this year of getting to know myself, who is Ivy, what kind of things does she like.  I had the weight loss surgery in Oct 2008, I then had a hysterectomy in Dec 2008.  I know that’s a lot but the insurance was changing at work had to get it all end before the end of year.  I now know that I can not love anybody if I do not love myself first.  I need to be in good health to love or nurish any body else.   I really had to talk this out I am so glad I found this site

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