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ITS REALLY TOUGH BEING ME AND DEALING WITH LIFES UPS AND DOWNS AND EVERYTHING ELES THATS GOES WITH IT.
MY HUSDAND—- HE TRIES I KNOW HE DOES BUT NOT HARD ENOUGH
THE KIDS-HIS KIDS—- THEY HAVE USED AND ABUSED ME FOR SO MANY YEARS I DONT KNOW IF I AM COMING OR GOING ANYMORE, BUT OFCOURSE ITS MY FAULT..
MY NEICES WHO ARE MY MAIN CONCERN.. THEY NEED ME. NO ONE WANTED THEM, THEY WERE LEFT IN FOSTERCARE WITH NO ONE TO LOVE THEM. SO I FOUGHT AND I FOUGHT HARD AND I WON. 2 YEARS AGO I GOT THEM OUT OF THAT HELL.BUT IT SEEMS THAT THEY TO SEE WHATS GOING ON AROUND ME,
IF I CONPLAIN ABOUT SOMETHING I AM A BITCH IF  KEEP TO MYSELF I JUST DONT CARE ANYMORE.. I CANT WIN FOR LOOSING ANYMORE. AND WHEN I TRY TO TALK I AM ALWAYS THE WRONG ONE.. I DONT KNOW ANYTHING.. PLEASE GIVE ME A BREAK. I HAVE WALKED IN MY OWN SHOES.. I HAVE CARRIED THE BURDON OF ALL MOTHERS AND ALL I GET BACK IS.............................................................. NOTHING..

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      Mz. Queen wrote May 29, 2009
    • Mothers are endowed with certain strengths, tolerances and weaknesses but it behooves us to know when enough is enough with that being said I believe when you reach your point you will stop and make the right change to suit everyone in your care, especially yourself.

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      UK Girl wrote May 29, 2009
    • Honey I’m sorry your feeling this pain but it’s hard being a mother and caring - I know later they will be grateful but at the moment they are not showing it ... stick with it honey xx



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      Dalia Spurgeon wrote May 29, 2009
    • Friend what I can say to you it’s that I was at one point in my life where you are now maybe to the same measure you are, but I had to take a hard look at myself and decide that no one else can make me happy but me, If I allow for the circumstances of life to weight me down and all I think is about is that, then I was waving my on trap.  I have to come to the realization that as much that I want to be all thing to all people because of my giving nature give by God I have to know that not even in a million year I will have the perfect life that lives in my imagination.  Life is what it’s.  You are the only person you can change.  Love, D



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      Chrisc wrote May 31, 2009
    • The important thing is...someday your nieces are going to realize (and appreciate) the sacrifices you are making for them. And someday, your step-kids will mature and understand what they’ve put you through.  Until then, try to find solace with the rest of us step-mothers.



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      Skye333 wrote Jun 13, 2009
    • Girl, I completely understand what you are feeling. I go throught he exact thing with my step children. I really think that if the mother wanted the best for her children she would not have slandered me all these years. She left my husband for another man thinking he had money out his ass but what she learned a year later was the man was a coke head and all his money went to just that. He died 6 months later and she wanted back in my husbands life to raise her 3 kids. Well, he had moved on in life and met me. From these kids being very young she has done nothing but created problems with me and has made them hate me. They have no clue why they divorced but they were told that I kept them from getting back together. Now the youngest is 13 and the oldes is 23. It’s no better.  I will pray for you



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