Today in NC it is a beautiful Spring day(finally). So my husband and I decided to have some friends over for a little cookout. Of course, the guys wanted to be in charge of the grill(great!!!!!!!!!!!!). So I’m thinking that while the guys are outside laughing, drinking, and grilling, that I could catch up with my Fab40 ladies. Finally I get signed in and am just about caught up on what’s going on, when in comes one of my friends asking what am I doing. I tell her that I am just messing around on the computer and she sees the Fab40 site. Of course, she starts asking questions about the site. So when I finally see that I’m not gonna be able to catch up at this moment, I sign out. Once I’m signed out, she starts asking more questions. Then she asks me “why am I keeping secrets from her“? I share a lot of stuff with her, but I just wanted to be able to have something just for me. She is quiet a bit younger than me(she’s 36, I’m 41).She was very upset and decided to leave early because she thinks that I’m not including her in my life. After everybody left, I was discussing the problem with my husband and he was telling me not to worry about it, that I deserve to have something that’s just for me. Now, my question is do you think that I am wrong for not telling my friend about the Fab40?