I am making it my Affirmation for the year 2009 to be the best it can possibly be.  I don’t care if the economy is tough.  I don’t care if I do not know what is out there.  I am going to make MY LIFE the best it can be this year.  I am 100% responsible for me.  My actions plus my events equal my outcome. A+E=O.  How can we give the best when we are not being there for ourselves.  We are with ourselves 24-7.  We wouldn’t treat our friends the way we treat ourselves. We wouldn’t put up with someone treating us the way we treat ourselves.  So, why do we do it.  I am in control of me.  No one else.  I make choices for myself.  I am barely in the middle of my life and I am vowing not to live another moment without doing what is right for ME!!  How can I give my best when I am not being my best.  It is not fair to others at all if we are constantly trying to please them. Trying to do what is best for others.  Trying to not hurt others fealings when we are hurting our own.  If we put ourselves on the top of the list and live in the moment.  Forget the past.  IT is gone.  We can’t fix it.  We can’t change it, so stop letting the ghosts haunt us and ruin our present.  Today is ours for the taking.