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Can anybody give me advise.  My husband has
been a real monster lately. It does not
matter what I do if I cry he says the drama
if i try to talk he says the anger. What to
do. I have to say it is like I am a child,
well actually he talks to his 14year old daughter better
than he talks to me.




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    • 0 votes vote up vote up

      Rene' Grandon wrote Sep 23, 2008
    • Dear Fran123,

      After reading your blog, I thought I might try to help.
      I have been married 23 years,and my husband is 42. He use to act angry a lot too,and he suffured from high blood pressure too. He was not taking medicine either,because being a driver is being a contractor. No benefits. He recently changed from driving a limo to being a dispacher. He has less stress at work which makes him happier in general. It has also naturally lowered his blood pressure. Maybe your husband needs to figure out what is stressing him out possibly his job. Just a thought maybe it is actully your husband that needs to look inside himself, instead of lashing out at you when he is angry about something else.
      I hope this might help.

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    • 0 votes vote up vote up

      Fran123 wrote Sep 23, 2008
    • Dear Bella40anddolci,

      Thanks for the advice he ist having problems
      at work but for him that is always. It is always
      someone else. Today is my first day on here
      I am not sure how alot yet.


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      Nani2l wrote Sep 23, 2008
    • Fran,
      How long have you guys been married and how old are y‘all?  There are so many things that could be going on, but if he’s not willing to talk, to you or a therapist, then that’s gonna make it hard.

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