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Well, as I mentioned in my profile, if anyone bothered to read it, is I was recently divorced after a 38 year long, and I mean LONG relationship that should never have happened in the first place. It’s been grueling, he’s angry, hurt, bitter and vengeful to the max. He’s taken us to the brink of financial disaster and blamed it all on me, he’s stolen my spousal support from me, he’s screwed around with properties that should have sold but he doesn’t want to give up, anything and everything he can think of to punish me because I had the courage and the strength to finally leave him.  The fourth time was the charm in this case. Now, each day brings a sense of dread as to what he’s going to do next, nothing new there that’s how I and my kids lived every day but back then it wasn’t fueled with vindictiveness. I know I’m not unique in this area, I know there are women out there that have experienced much worse and I am thankful that we had properties that I could escape to, that God has provided a means of supporting myself to date, that I have my wonderful children here to support and chastise me when I get out of hand about this. Each day I tell myself “move forward, just keep moving forward” and force myself to do something proactive like work on my website, or talk with a friend or seek counsel from my brilliant, brave son. I’d like to hear from other women who have been here and those who are still here and even those who are about to be here.  We need to stick together and help one another through these times that can be so dark.  Let’s hear from you!

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