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I love friends.
I enjoy their companionship, their laughter, their sorrow, their sharing, their love and much more.
So I started thinking, why don’t I create a social gathering place...so I can have some fun.
I first rented a hall with min. funding
I set up tables, chairs and a pot of coffee
I started inviting family and friends first
I had the door opened.
They visited and said it was fun
Further asked to open for others
So I started to put up flyers
I started to market this place
with word of mouth and all my efforts and devotions
More to come from everywhere
India to China
England to Australia.
More coffee, more tables, more chairs
Now they want gourmet coffee
Creamers and Sugars
Plus Pastry
Rent still needs to be plumbed up
Not to mention the clean up
If anyone leaves with a mess
Though visitors help out
It still leave me to check
Every night at 2 am
I am to see if I need to further straighten up
The door is opened 24/7.
I tried to be at the door to greet everyone
I ignored my husband, my children
and I am doubting about my passion.
Then there are times I got ER calls,
There is flood in the hall
The bathroom is out of soap
There is a potential fight
Some intruders come in on board
There is an argument, disagreement
There is a sour puss
There is a raging one
There is someone who need a shelter
There is someone who is hungry and poor
There is someone ....
I got all calls!
I need to call the plumber
I need to call the landlord and is there really one???
Then I feel my pocket is diminishing
thought I have great fulfillment
when all visitors express their love and appreciations
vs some just stomp out
vs some just come and do not give a damn
vs some just receive with no giving
vs some give me hugs and said Well Done.
Then I started thinking of fees
Entrance fee? No, too cruel
So a fee on a cup of coffee just to help out a tit of a big burden
I see the royal love
however, some are doubting
some said I still like to come and no coffee for me
some said I could get free coffee elsewhere and why I need to come.
some said Bitch, it is just your ego and about business.
It leaves me with great astonishment....
I wonder why they can’t see where I am coming from?????
And when do I draw the line?????
do they know you need help now?
do they know your feelings on the matter?
Ladies, I think this is an analogy for the website and for what Yana is dealing with. Am I right, CD?
My dashboard shows a post from Doreen, but I don’t see it here.
Oh, there it is!
I was told it is called Cache.... a delayed time, etc. Vic is to look into that.
The I here is not I.
I just compelled to write this. I understand different sisters have different agendas and priority. I feel speechless today. 
I am so con-freakin-fused here. After reading the blog, I assume that someone tends to bite off more than they can chew...often???
ok I think I get it now.....I guess we need to respect the fact that some folks have really enjoyed the coffee, but as this time, it may not be feesible to pay for the coffee. I can respect that and I'm sure the person charging for the coffee can respect that also. hmmmmm
I don't think it should be any one's business either way.
Cindy you are absolutly correct my sentiments exactly, and as Yana has also stated she knows we have enjoyed our FREE stay and compliments but she is in this as a business and it costs to run it and yes there should be a fee and the majority here don’t have any issues what so ever paying the fee BUT there are also those such as MYSELF who has voiced to Yana in a PM that I will upgrade when I can and she perfectly understood that and PM‘ed me back saying ok no pressure so why is someone else so worried about when another will upgrade if there is no pressure from the site owner. No one here really knows another person’s situation and it is no one elses’s business so why can’t some just leave other people’s business alone and mind their own and not send out pot shots over the status bar and then when they are dealt with they tend to want to regress as if the person they threw the shot at is wrong? This is suppose to be a mature site for mature women and I know we all have our days but somethings need NOT be messed with such as a person personal priorities or whatever, its no one business how someone else spends their money its their money.
Good Morning IC, I'm just keeping it real and thats how it is when I can afford the upgrade I'll do it, and besides I'm still seeing too many glitches to pay just yet I've never been one to jump into something I need to see where its going first but I do plan on upgrading soon as told to Yana.
no matter what, if we can pay at this time or not, we are ALL premium women!!
Mztracy, that is the best thing I have read all day. You are exactly right......we are all premium.
Awwww! I see. Thanks for letting me know. That’s why I inquired earlier about a charge. I wasn’t aware of any.
Thanks for the info 
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