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I just found a few days ago that my husband is cheating on me again.  My husband I work at the same company, and his cheat works in my building on the same floor.  I see her in the ladies room and she says hi to me.  She also has ties to my previous ex in-laws.  My world has crashed down on me again, and I am scared.



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      UK Girl wrote Jan 10, 2010
    • Oh honey I'm so sorry – have you proof or is it your very strong intuition kicking in ?
      I hope you stay strong and get through this – my view is women who do this are beyond despicable as they wreak havoc on so many lives



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      Mzd3 wrote Jan 10, 2010
    • So sorry you are going through this...if you need someone to talk to , Im here. We all are....



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      Marie66 wrote Jan 10, 2010
    • I’m so sorry that your going thru this.. I don’t know exactly what to say.. We are here for you whenever you need to talk to someone..



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      Frannie1964 wrote Jan 10, 2010
    • So sorry your going thru this Samib.



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      Venus 7000 wrote Jan 10, 2010
    • I am so sorry to hear this.  Have you spoken to him about it yet?  Infidelity is never acceptable.    

      If he is truly remorseful and willing to work on repairing your marriage there is a chance that it might be saved.   Counseling may be required.  

      If he blames you or fails to accept responsibility for what has occurred, things will be much, much harder.  In the mean time you should lean on your friends for support.  Hope things work out for you.



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      Rose Nino wrote Jan 10, 2010
    • I am so sorry to hear this. Please know that my prayers are with you at this most difficult time.  

      Blessings,
      Rose



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      Samib wrote Jan 10, 2010
    • Thanks all.  

      Everything is confirmed, everything is admitted by him. There is also electronic evidence.  It is more than once, and it is predatory.  There is nothing left to question.  Counseling has already been tried before the recurrences and didn’t work.

      Your support warms my heart.



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      Linni wrote Jan 10, 2010
    • I am so sorry samib that you have to go through this! remember that we are here for you!
      hugs to you!



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      Owlmaria wrote Jan 10, 2010
    • My heart goes out to you during this trying and difficult time. Nothing I say will make things better. Just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. xoxoxo
      Maria



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      Ladybug10 wrote Jan 10, 2010
    • samib,our hearts are full of pain for you,and we are here for you!



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      Janet Wooley wrote Jan 10, 2010
    • I think ever person alive has dealt w/this, You are not alone, It’s not you fault. My prayers & thoughts are w/you hon. Stay strong.



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      Frannie1964 wrote Jan 10, 2010
    • where here for you Samib.



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      Kandykahne 5 wrote Jan 10, 2010
    • So sorry to hear this Samib. Stay strong.



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      Macy wrote Jan 11, 2010
    • So sorry, that is just not fair at all. There just seems to be so much of that going on out there, people  don’t seem to take their marriage vows seriously. I’m willing to bet workplace affairs are the #1 atomosphere for infidelity.
      Please know I feel for you and hope you have some great support, perhaps a good friend to pick you up and eat chocolate with.
      I wish I had a magic wand and could make this all go away for you.



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      Betspussl wrote Jan 12, 2010
    • I went throught the same stuff all through my 11 years of marriage My husband cheated on me while we were in marriage counseling and cheated on me with a coworker that sat right next to me at work.I don’t know why I tolerated this for so long.It is so painful and now we are in the midst of seperating.Are you going to confront the other woman that you work with? I did, but she lied about.I have just learned that i have to value and love myself enough to let him go.It’s hard,but you can;t stay in a relationship with someone who doesnt value you.So sorry.Keep us posted.



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      Marya1961 wrote Jan 13, 2010
    • We are here for you!!..it is tough and I am still a firm believer in “what goes around, comes around“...he will find that out one day.



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      Minishoes1 wrote Jan 15, 2010
    • Hi,
      Sorry to hear about this. This happened to me with my ex-husband. He cheated on me with one of my good friends. I wouldn’t imagine he would do that and with my friend. I was so shocked and hurt! That was about 8 yrs ago. It was tough to get through,but I did. I know you will too. There is a strong support system here and my thought are with you!
      minishoes1



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      Samib wrote Jan 20, 2010
    • Thanks everybody.  I'm not logging in here much - can't back into a routine of anything - still all messed up.  You all are wonderful.



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