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Well I made it through another Valentines Day.  Unlike others I decided not to hope for all the typical things associated with this day.  

For me it was a very easy day.  I slept until my bones starting screaming “enough rest already lady let’s get up and get moving!”  After which I decided not to do much of anything. I enjoyed a carefree, stressfree day.  I had no expectations for flowers and candy but just to enjoy as much peace and quite as possible.

I’m slowly learning how to be the co-captain of my life by following the course that God has so strategically plan for my life. I’m often awed that even though God is God, God allows me to make decisions as best as I can on which path or direction I should take at times and even when I choose what might seem to be the wrong path God in God’s merciful way guides and helps me move towards the path that God desires.

In addition to this revelation, I’m learning how to pick my battles, how to decide what’s important to me and do for myself that which I am able to do instead of relying on someone else all the time.  I’m learning to make myself happy with the things that are most important to me because I’m important to me.

And guess what at the end of yesterday it was a beautiful feeling having spent some quiet time with someone so special, so fun, so loving and so unique. ME!

Thank you to all who extended Valentin wishes and Happy Valentines Day to all my Fab40 & Beyond sisters and brothers may you enjoy many, many, many more.


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