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*Conversation between two women:

One woman statement, You don’t believe in us, but you want me to believe in you. You want me to trust you, but you don’t keep your word when it comes to me...Whenever your ex-wife call, you walk away to talk to her and whatever she says you go running.....I am not priority or of value in your life.

This is what I hear from one of my friends and I feel for her...she says she feels that she has wasted time and days she can get back on a man who makes her feel that she isn’t enough for him.....now he hasn’t said it, but he shows it in his actions and actions speak louder then words.

My opinion for me.....(I can only speak for myself)....I remember this one time I was stressing over this guy....“One of my friends said to me..“Demi“...does this man call you in your day and says( Hello sunshine how’s your day, I wanted you to know I was thinking about you and that I miss you) That was the best thing she could have said to me. And I made a decision for myself not to waste my time on any man who does not value me or has me as a priority in his life, because if I hold no value in your day and you don’t miss me or what I possess as a woman...then there is nothing else you need from me. I value myself a great deal and I will not allow anyone to devalue me....for me I feel I should always be my best and do my best for others, but not when I am doing all the given and you are doing all the taken....I have learn it’s not good to give of yourself to someone who has not place you of importance in their life’s you are only hurting yourself in the long run...now I believe in living in truth, but if you are allowing someone to treat you any kind of way that’s not living in truth..that’s being abused. Why should I put you at the top of the food chain and I am not at the top of your food chain...it ain’t gone happen!....when dealing with others we must put our hearts in the hands of GOD for safe keeping not mankind and remember when getting involved with someone be patient and wait on given all that you possess as your woman until he has made it clear to you the importance and value you have in his life, because in the long run it will spear you alot of heartache.....STAY FOCUS AND YOU ARE BLESSED!*



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