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How many times have you heard a parent say, I didn’t raise my child like that. I never thought it would be me, until March first the day of my beautiful daughters 20th birthday and she dropped the bomb shell that she is pregnant.
I am still reeling hoping she stays in school, hoping she will come to her senses and come home so we can help her but even as I say it I know my hardheaded stuborn child will refuse any offers we put out unless that boy can come to. And I draw the line I don not want my son to believe that it is ok. I just seem to ramble a lot these days, angrier then ever.
It happens-mistakes are made. With 3 daughters I have always been waiting for this-even though as a L&D RN I told them about every young mom I ever took care of-scared them straight I guess. I think I would be mad also-but don’t take this out on her or the father-probably the hardest part.
I have to agree with term. By not allowing the boy very well may alienate her.
Very hard but as Term says if you alienate him - you risk losing her and the baby ....
I am not alienating him I just do not want him living in my house with her. I pay her medical insurance her car insuranse and I send her money every month if I have it. But I am sorry, himm living with her in my house is not ok.