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Every time things get touch around here, HE just makes me feel more like S***!

There is NO Emotional Support from him what-so-ever!  Do you wanna know what I hear....“Things are not going to work“!

No S***!  -  I lose my Job, and you Buy a Used piece of crap motorcycle, so add to the already extended expenses.  Why are they extended....because HE was whining about Needing a New Truck....so he threatens to leave if I didn’t co-sign....why didn’t I just let him leave....because I was barely working part-time....so he buys a Dodge Ram (big truck).  All our expenses went UP.  Did I do it?  NO!

Whenever it’s HIS fault....I do NOT lace into him (well, I used to not).

When HE LOST my only alarm key for my Ford Taurus....did I yell?  No, he tried to just play it off....

But the littlest thing I do that HE feels is Wrong....I never hear the end of it.  

Never Good Enough......

I really, really, wish I could just pack up the truck (MY name IS on it TOO), with my girls and my dog (sorry, kitty would have to go to my brother), and drive down to Florida....far, far, away from HIM.

But of course I would not only need MONEY for that, but NERVE!

When the hell am I going to find that?

Sorry......



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      Denise Richardson wrote May 28, 2009
    • frownsorry for your unhappiness, I hope all turns for the better.



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      Sandils1962 wrote May 28, 2009
    • You are in my prayers. I know what you are going through and it isn’t easy to try to leave.
      Sandi



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      Marie66 wrote May 28, 2009
    • Oh thats sounds so familiar...I’m so sorry that you are going thru so much..I’ll have you in my prayers..No need to say your sorry thats what we‘re here for..

      Gilda



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      Lazylola wrote May 29, 2009
    • this all sounds familiar to me, I was in your shoes, I finally got the courage to leave, I was homeless, carless, jobless and with 3 kids to take care, with determination I overcame all that. If you need too vent feel free to do so, I’m new around here but I get the feeling that there are many wonderful ladies here ready to listen and offer up their strength either through words or just lending an ear.



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      UK Girl wrote May 29, 2009
    • Men work on impulse and live to regret ..... bike truck etc; so they get sulky women on the other hand are planners .......... we plan ahead we plot the road and look for the bumps.

      Your not s**t your fabulous and your with friends so start planning the trip in your truck ....it will happen if you make it – nerve has nothing to do with it – just planning and break the plan down into bite sized chucks so your not overwhelmed



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      Lazylola wrote May 29, 2009
    • Is there a Domestic Violence Shelter in your area? You don’t have to be a victim of physical abuse, mental and emotional abuse would qualify you for many of the services they offer. They can provide you with free counseling as well as with an escape plan. Some will even pick you up, house you and your kids temporarily and assist you with childcare, transportation, and help in getting a job or entering the workforce. Something for you to consider, all this should be free, plus they can also help you relocate. Please look in your local phone directory under Domestic Violence Hotline. I hope this helps.



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      Anitra Daffin wrote May 29, 2009
    • Hi, I just finished reading your letter and I must say that my heart is so very full for you! And I can only hope and pray that you realize he is a coward! We were taken from Adams Rib to Womens Lib!You do have the nerve to do what ever it takes to get you to the next level! You need to know that you are divinely made, priceless! And God didn’t create you to be treated like a knockoff! First,being afraid is good thing! It lets me know you‘re human! Secondly,stop worrying about him! We women make that mistake all the time.(Been there, done that, got frequent flyer miles and the T-shirt!). I know you‘re wondering how you would make it if you left? But, trust me you will make it! There a so many resources for women in situations just like this! Pray, meditate and protect the precious gifts you have charge over.(your children)Now,I know UK stands for YOU CAN!!!!! Much love Anitra60



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      40andwhere wrote Jun 11, 2009
    • I was just reading through some of my blogs, realizing there are replies I’ve missed.

      I would LOVE to hop in the truck, with my Girls and my Dog, and head to FLORIDA.  Leave him with my little car!  LOL
      Hey, he likes to tell me: “It’s still My Car“, because I never put it in my name (it was extra money I couldn’t put out), but the truck is in Mine and His (mine first).

      But of course that is just a Dream.  You Need Money for that, and I don’t even have a Job right now.  

      {{Just Dreaming}}

      Thanks for all the support though ladies. xo

      I do see how much we All do go through the Same Things with alot of these Men.  

      I’m sure there are some really special Men out there who don’t deserved to be bashed....I just with Mine was One of them.

      Thank You All.......



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