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When we first meet someone, we often feel so much chemistry that is difficult to see someone’s faults and dishonest tendencies. Or is it?  

Normally, there are many signs if someone is not being honest with you. One of the things I tell women to look out for is consistency. Sometimes, a guy will not show inconsistent patterns for a month or two, but normally even after a few weeks there are signs.

If someone is not available to talk to you at night, he might be either married, or in another relationship. Even if you are not normally the type of woman that “calls guys“, you might want to reconsider.  

Guys like to be noticed and called. Just don’t do it excessively and try to do it at times when you feel they may not be home. Try not to call late at night or too early in the morning as this is not only inconsiderate but may put up some red flags for the guy as well.

If you have met them on a dating site, check periodically to see if they are still on. If you are intimate with them, they should  not be online looking for dates. This is a subject you should approach before it gets to that point. If they deviate from your agreement, say goodbye.  

Also, if you notice a guy always seems to come to your house and doesn’t want you to visit his, this could be a warning sign. Make sure that you are not only aware of where he lives but have also visited his place.

If someone really has an interest in you, he will soon want to share a part of himself and that includes his kids and home. Don’t give your heart away until you are certain he is really on the same emotional page as you !


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