The 21st century is a wonderful time to be alive, to be a woman.  Not only in what it’s brought us in the way of advanced technology although the invention of the cell phone, the laptop and the almighty iPhone for those of us who are lucky enough to experience one but the freedom, comfort and sexiness of the woman who is over 40.

My mother told me that 40 years ago a woman over 40 was just coming to the realization that her life was almost over.  Where sex, the very idea of feeling the “SEX” was more than any woman in her right mind was willing to talk about.  What sex?  Once you turn 40, that’s just a part of life that was over.  Well “HALLELLUIAH!  and hello to the 21st century because no other time in the world has women over 40 felt more sexual and more alive than we today.

Sex in your twenties (I dare not mention it any earlier) was more acrobatic and mostly on the physical aspect of it all.  You were able to do some moves that looking back now, you‘re wondering, “how did I do that?”  You could hang upside down and just have the most amazing time of your life and just keep going on and on and on and on.  Never too much thought into it, you just had sex.

Sex in your thirties brought the intimate aspect of the experience.  You wanted him close and you needed to hug and squeeze and be told how great it was and that you were the best lover he ever had.  And for some of us, you also wanted a baby.  After you were told that your timeclock was ticking you would have said anything to get him in the mood for a roll in the hay.  It felt good and you enjoyed it.

Now you‘re in your 40s.  Whoa!, could it be, for the most part you want it even more than you did before.  Hey wait, you like it this way, that way and you don’t feel like faking it anymore, you want a real mind blowing orgasm and you‘re going to get it.  Your man looks at you and wonders, who are you, who is this woman that I’m dealing with.  

No, nothing’s wrong, you‘re just experiencing great sex as it should be, because the worries of yesteryear are slowly but surely fading away.  Even with the ever unavoidable menopause looming near, sex is suddenly fun, exciting, you even sneak a few good laughs at yourself and your partner, and you‘re not afraid of telling him exactly what you want and what you need.  

You can now because you‘re over 40, you‘re woman and you‘re emancipated.

What’s your story?