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I think not.  

Now, I am a positive thinker and I also believe that people can change if they want to.  But, would Jesse have gotten any help if he hadn’t been caught?  Doesn’t it break your heart to see Sandra hurt and humiliated by this mess?

Rumor has it he was cheating right from the start.  I always ask, how could she not have known?  There had to be clues.  Of course, with his business out of town, the stage was set.  But why can’t some men keep it in their pants?  Just like Tiger Woods before him, here’s a guy with more money than God, work he loves and a gorgeous woman throwing it all away.  

Maybe risky behavior is that addictive.  

I watched Jesse’s face while Sandra picked up her Oscar and he appeared moved...tears forming in his eyes.  In hindsight, he was probably feeling like a real schmuck, as he should.  I think Sandra should cut her losses and move on.  She deserves something better.




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      UK Girl wrote Apr 5, 2010
    • I think he is only sorry because he got caught – Sandra is an attractive, funny bright woman who doesn't need that garbage in her life and I bet a queue round the block of great guys who would date her in a heart beat ......
      He on the other hand is a low life



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      Cristina Corral wrote Apr 5, 2010
    • I, too, think he is only sorry because Hooters McGee sold the story and he got caught!  His behavior won’t change.



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      Dana Cappelletti wrote Apr 5, 2010
    • I think we are all in agreement.  Infidelity is something that can happen to anyone and can be overcome.
      Lack of character can not be changed.  In my opinion, both Jesse and Tiger lack character.



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      Stacey Clark wrote Apr 5, 2010
    • People can change but unfortunately once a cheater always a cheater...move on Sandra, she deserves better..and honestly I would be scared to death of the diseases this nasty guy could have gotten along the way!!



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      Paris Mano wrote Apr 5, 2010
    • People can change but they usually don’t!
      I think Elin and Sandra should both boot the losers out!
      They don’t deserve good women like that.



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      Mztracy wrote Apr 5, 2010
    • I’m with UKgirl, he is sorry because he got caught.
      She deserves a man that would never even think of cheating.



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      Denise Critcher wrote Apr 5, 2010
    • I also think that both Sandra and Elin should move on. The men who cheat and get caught can do one of two things, get on their knee and plead for forgiveness and go seek counseling or keep destroying themselves and the people who love them.



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      Karyn Olson wrote Apr 5, 2010
    • Yes I agree once a cheat always a cheat...I lived with one for many years...but I also think that if you love someone then you will do anything and everything in your power to change your behaviors and try to make it work...same goes for Sandra...It is obvious that she loves the man...the question is whether or not she wants to forgive and try again and pray that this never happens again or walk away.  This is just my opinion.



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      Frannie1964 wrote Apr 5, 2010
    • I agree with all of the aboveheartheart

      If he didn’t get caught, I am sure he would still be cheating on her. Shes traveling here and there filming movies while hes at his garage having his fantasys met. I’m sure It was hard for her to not notice his cheating when they are both In differant places. But all the speeches she had made making him look so good and the fact that no one had her back before until she met him, It just makes me sick that he would do this to my girl Sandra.frownheartbreak Now I feel as If shes never going to trust another man again and not find the happiness she so deserves, but I really hope she can find someone who will have her back and not cheat behind It!  

      I’m with you all the way Sandra and hope you heal from this mess soon. I am behind her dicision that she makes and hope she lets Jesse go..far far away!!!



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