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Secretly, she never did like those dwarves.

Over the years, she even secretly named them.   Whiney, Negative, Complacent, Unmotivated, Stubborn, Naive and Annoying.  Resentment was a constant battle.  She was such a sweet thing and didn't get angry very often and she really enjoyed helping them....part of the time.  But, she never felt appreciated at the deepest level.  When they hi-hoed-hi-hoed and off to work they went....she took care of that whole household....with no electric appliances.  The end of the day came and her to do list was never done. The next day all she had was the same routine.....again.

How do you tell if you are a Snow White? Maybe you are a Scarlett O'Hara, Rapunzel or Sleeping Beauty. Everyone has a Self Sabotage Style, I call them True Love Saboteurs and I find four types.  Snow Whites are lovely women.  They are kind, generous to a fault, reliable and faithful as apple pie.   They crave financial security and yet are chronic under-earners.  They strongly believe that their service to others will give them the connection they are hungry for.  Most have no idea what True Love really feels like so their love magnetism is scattered and confusing.

Because The True Love Saboteur's only task is to make sure your beliefs are supported and stay true, this is a powerful energy source with in you. She is truly a master.  It is tangible proof of the power of focus.  You believe Love is hard and that it is impossible to find a good match....your Saboteur makes sure that happens.

How do I know?  You are still single.  No matter how desperately you want a partner, it is not happening.  Your Saboteur is working overtime, underneath the radar, supporting the belief that trusting a man again will be too devastating to handle. For many Snow Whites, the stomach clenching fear about what will happen if the next man is not the one, is enough to unconsciously opt for singleness.

In fact, most Snow White's have taken steps to move on from the past and recognize what they have been doing is not working.  Many of them are out of touch, perhaps numb, to the inner turmoil.  Like ashes after a forest fire, there is emotional residue cluttering up the Inner Landscape.  A part of you is terrified that you will not find someone.  Your Saboteur is doing everything it can to make sure you don't feel how afraid you are.

What's the solution?  The first step is to check in to see if Snow White's Saboteur Style fits:

How To Recognize Snow White:

    * Doesn't enjoy social events where there are mostly couples.

    * Allows schedule to fill with lots of activity but not much substance.

    * Needs to feel validated, almost manic about being right.

    * A tender spot for animals.  Some feel their soul mate is their pet.

    * Holds a grudge, hard to let go of disappointment.

    * Hard to say no.  Feels sucked into things she doesn't want to do.

    * Had a very strong imagination as a young child.

    * Her friends see her as sweet and kind though at some level, she doesn't get that.

The second step is easy.  If you feel you might have a True Love Saboteur underneath your relationship radar, just click the link below and we can set up a complimentary consultation. I can show you if your Saboteur is activated and how much control she has over your love life.


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