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Wow - today is just one of those days.  If I don’t start screaming, I think I’ll explode.
Everyone I look at is making me crazy.  Take a crazy cranky bitch, add some crazy menopausal hormones, a sick (been that way for WEEKS) husband, a stressful job and a debilitating illness....ugly combo!

So - if I could be frank with my dear husband, I’d tell him NO - I don’t want to go to dinner. I’ve worked 60 hours this week and I’m tired and my body hurts too much for words.  I know you have a tummy ache - get over it. My legs hurt so much i can’t stand up.  No - I don’t want to go to the mall.  No - I don’t want to eat greasy fast food that will give me intestinal difficulties for days.  No - I don’t want to have sex.  Are you freakin kidding me??

Our deal is that you stay home and take care of the house and kids and I work.  The house is a pit and I am NOT cleaning it.  Are you really that crazy?  Stop being a jerk to our kids.  They don’t particulary care if you have a tummy ache.  Who are you?  do you have any idea how much you whine?  And no - I don’t want to have sex.

I’m tired.  I hurt.  My stress level is off the charts.  I’m fighting for my job - and our livlihood - every single day.  My legs don’t always support the weight of my body.  I have a period every other week.  And NO - I DON‘T WANT TO HAVE SEX.

phew - okay, I don’t think I’ll blow up and explode.  I really do have value and a somewhat positive attitude.  Most days.  I’m not always a cranky menopausal bitch.  I don’t (always) hate my husband.  It’s just one of those days!!


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