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My divorce was finalised to-day.  I looked across the court room at the man I had once loved (and who had once loved me) and wondered if anything lasted forever.  He did not look at me through the entire proceeding.  I peeked timidly at him once or twice. I can honestly say that I did not recongnise the man.  His features were hard and cold.  His tone was soooooo clipped and cold in response to his attorney’s questions.
I still don’t know the why. Irreconcilable differences. Ha.
So where do I go to from here?
Tomorrow is another day.  For now, I’m off to bed.



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      Mary Clark wrote Oct 14, 2008
    • I say you start living your life....tomorrow is a new day.
      This is now behind you...move forward.  No other way to go.  

      Divorce is so very hard on everyone.  But stay strong....regroup....best of luck...in your new beginning.



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      Scootergirl1 wrote Oct 14, 2008
    • I guess I found this site in the nick of time.
      Thank you



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      Mary Clark wrote Oct 14, 2008
    • I’m so glad for you.  You have many people on this site that will support you and try to help you along the way.  

      You will be fine...but you have to believe that yourself.  Tell yourself that every day....and you will.



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      Cheryl Sharpton wrote Oct 14, 2008
    • My first husband was a NY cop and cold as ice to me too.  I have often wondered what went wrong and still can’t find the answers.  I guess I never will know the whole story because there are 3 sides to every story.  His...Hers...and the truth!  

      I wish you peace and happiness.  Welcome to the best years of your life.  Find yourself in reflection and enjoy every minute.



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      Cindylouwho1966 wrote Oct 14, 2008
    • The saying goes, there’s a thin line between love and hate. Divorce is a puzzling creature.



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      Dana Mite wrote Oct 15, 2008
    • As a female of 42 years, never married w/ no kids, it is nice to know that I made the right choices in my life w/ an education & career. Not following a man! My parents are both on their 4th marriages, so that is the reason I am the way I am. Good luck to SOLO girl!!



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      Gina Venturini wrote Oct 15, 2008
    • Now it’s time to Celebrate you and move foward in your life.
      eliminate  the baggage and be ready to open the doors for new and exciting opportunities.

      Just never forget to love yourself first.



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      Almostfive0 wrote Oct 15, 2008
    • Like the other women have said...this is a new beginning for you, embrace it, learn from, and love yourself every minute even on the bad days.
      Remember the lessons that he came into your life to teach you, never forget them, choose to forgive (for your own sake) and try to remember the good in him and move on.
      Peace.



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      Scootergirl1 wrote Oct 15, 2008
    • Ladies, I thank you all for your input. I hate to say this, but it feels like I have a bunch of sisters out there (and it feels fab)
      To-day has started and I am putting into play the new direction that I had wanted to pursue, but didn’t.
      I’ll keep you all posted.



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      Darla5 wrote Oct 15, 2008
    • You are not alone.  I have been there. There will be good days and bad days. On those bad days... stay busy. Pray to the Lord. It helps...

      You will discover a new person before to long... The new you... Stronger, more wisdom, greater insight and so on.

      Always remember when the Lord shut that door...he opened a window for you.



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      Rena Bennefield wrote Oct 15, 2008
    • **I been divorced 4 times..You know what you do Girl..You treat yourself..Call up a friend if you have someone who will give you the support you need right now..and no matter what do not talk about him or your divorce or your past life with him..It's done...If not don't let that stop you..Take yourself out and buy an outfit that you couldn't when you with him..Or a favorite perfume that you always wanted..It can be your new signature scent..Go to a nice place for lunch..Order something different..Make this a time of a new beginning..Off with the old and on with the new..This is a time to reinvent yourself..Turn the page in your book of life..Have you heard the song Feel the Rain on Your Skin.. I believe that is the name of it...Look at your book..The Rest Is Still Unwritten...



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      Cindylouwho1966 wrote Oct 15, 2008
    • Unwritten by Natasha Bedingfield



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