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An orgasm is an orgasm, right? And ice cream only comes in one flavor!
If you’ve “come” more than once in your life, you know how each orgasm can vary in intensity, character and duration. Climaxes often feel stronger when you‘re horny, softer when you‘re tired, and off-the-charts when you‘re tipsy, turned-on or crazy-in-love.

But what if you could supercharge ALL your orgasm? You’d not only amp up pleasure, you’d also lower your stress, burn more calories, ease menstrual cramps and enjoy deeper sleep - as well as plant an unwipeable smile on your face all day long.

This miracle is known as the mind/body connection - which simply means learning to be more in tune with yourself. And it all starts by knowing which sex organ is the biggest and most powerful.  

The answer: your brain.

Are You Pre-Orgasmic?
You do have the natural ability to orgasm - most every woman does. If you think you might have orgasmed, you probably haven’t. If you can only orgasm on your own, but not with your partner, that doesn’t mean you won’t. There’s lots of good news up ahead for you.

First, what is an orgasm, exactly? It’s the climatic release of  rising sexual excitement that you feel as a series of intensely euphoric and totally involuntary rhythmic pulsations throughout your vagina, uterus and rectum that can last as long or longer than it took you to read this entire sentence. And the next five words will actually help you experience them to the fullest: teach yourself by touching yourself.  

It’s Okay to Get in Touch with Yourself
Universally endorsed by physicians and sex therapists - as well as orgasmic women around the world, gentle masturbation is the key to strengthening your mind/body connection, while opening up a new world of pleasure, excitement and well-being.

Here’s the secret: Start by turning off the phones, tuning out your day, and maybe even drawing a hot, soothing bubble bath. Think sexy thoughts, perhaps about your lover, an old crush, a hunky movie star or even a forbidden acquaintance. Moisten a soft fingertip (or three!) with a few drops of slippery sex lubricant (Revelation), then gently caress your clitoris while you squeeze your pelvic muscles in harmony with your fingertip motion. Vary your pressure, rhythm and touching styles till you find what feels best - then keep going. Now revel in all your satisfying feelings without straying from your lusty thoughts and fantasies.
It’s okay if you don’t orgasm for awhile - just get to know yourself by learning your private pleasure spots and discovering which stroking styles turn you on. Or try a small waterproof vibrator (Tempting Tulip) and feel it lift your pleasures! They‘re well-known for setting off countless first orgasms.

Once you experience your first glorious orgasm, you can now share your discovery with your lover, gently guiding his fingertips to the sensual new joys you’ve uncovered. For a complete guide on female masturbation techniques, send for a copy of Tickle Your Fancy - A Woman’s Guide to Sexual Self-Pleasure, available in total confidence at

If you are already orgasmic on your own, but not with your lover, try some delightful positions variations and help him create the erotic clitoral contact you love during intercourse.

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